Re: The last day
My wife of three years moved out a week ago today , and what you are feeling is what I've been feeling.
It hurts worse than my heart attack!
My wife moved herself two blocks away from our home... I'd rather she be a thousand miles away.. she still has some stuff here and picked up a lot of it tonight.
Lord knows what she's thinking.
hang in there. You're with good people here.
If you need to talk, you can PM me.
Phil
Re: The last day Falcon554: >:( So so sad. Just hang in there.
The last day Targ: Tomorrow we move the last of her things out. I dread the last box. Over the last two weeks, she's been dropping by in the evenings to pack. We've moved most of her things to a storage facility, just a few odds and ends left to take care of...then she's gone. I've grown accustomed to the empty house over the last couple of weeks, but her things have been around to remind me that someone else was there. After tomorrow, there won't be any more reminders of her, or our lives together. She won't be here in the evening, if only even to pack. The next month will be about me making this space mine...but there is such a strong part of me that doesn't want to let it go.
I am going to miss so many things about her. So many facets of our life together are gone, so many wonderful things that will never repeat. All of the little things are lost; the small parts of daily living that wove into the rhythm of our lives together. It's so unreal that 11 years can come to a shuddering halt in 3 short weeks...while I've only been able to stand by and watch it all fade away.
