I hate me sometimes. Suddenly Single: Sometimes I hate by inability to deal with a situation. To not know what to do or say at the right moment and then getting so upset that I can't control my behavior.
ugh.
>:(
Re: I hate me sometimes. ga_sunshyne: Right there with ya SS
Re: I hate me sometimes. lonelywithouthim: me too! :-\
Re: I hate me sometimes. alonewith2: I used to be the same way. I was always the shy, timid, quiet type. It used to bug the crap out of me.
so, and this may sound really strange, but.....I used to practice. I would imagine all different sort of situations that I could find myself in, then I would practice all the different things I could say or do in those situations. This really helped me out socially and in my job settings. I was never a big one on confrontation, but after practicing different senarios, it became easier for me to react right away with what I wanted to say or do instead of realizing all the things I should have said or done later.
