I hate me sometimes.

I hate me sometimes. Suddenly Single: Sometimes I hate by inability to deal with a situation.  To not know what to do or say at the right moment and then  getting so upset that I can't control my behavior.

ugh.

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Re: I hate me sometimes. ga_sunshyne: Right there with ya SS

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Re: I hate me sometimes. lonelywithouthim: me too!  :-\

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Re: I hate me sometimes. alonewith2: I used to be the same way.  I was always the shy, timid, quiet type.  It used to bug the crap out of me.

so, and this may sound really strange, but.....I used to practice.  I would imagine all different sort of situations that I could find myself in, then I would practice all the different things I could say or do in those situations.  This really helped me out socially and in my job settings.  I was never a big one on confrontation, but after practicing different senarios, it became easier for me to react right away with what I wanted to say or do instead of realizing all the things I should have said or done later.

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