(sorry Men) MEN ARE FR****** LIARS lost enigma: >:( I don't Fuk*** get it. Why do men lie so much? They are men, shouldn't you act like one. OMFG. This is ridiculous.
he isn't cheating on me, but he still insists on lying about seeing his female coworker outside of work, who he use to date. WTF is that???
I have told him repeatedly, pls do not lie to me, pls do not see this girl outside of work, she is causing problems between us indirectly....he says fine...
:'(
(he sees her once every two weeks when he is at work, she lives 2.5 hrs away)
Then last night, he tells, me I will be working late, i dont want you to get worried.
I check his phone to see the schedule, and what do you know, her name is there @ 3pm. WHY DOES HE DO THIS TO ME. HE claims he is not cheating, i hear her vm's there isnt anything sexy or romantic about them...but why does he feel the god damn need to lie to me. he knows i will find out, then it will be ugly....
does he hate me even though he tells me he loves me?
Re: (sorry Men) MEN ARE FR****** LIARS hardened_heart1970: i second that, cheating gdfpos men. ugh.
dont take me wrong, but from what i see, he is having an emotional affair. its leaving you with all the emotions though, as he sees hes not doing anything wrong.
can you POP in his work next time, to see what, where, how they are together? take him a sandwich or something.
as long, as he sees he is getting away with it, i think he will continue. if he knows how strongly you feel, he should love you enought, to avoid alot.... tell him exactly how you feel. again, if needed...
just my .00304 cents worth
Re: (sorry Men) MEN ARE FR****** LIARS PiscesGoddess: [quote author=Mystic Rain link=topic=21539.msg201478#msg201478 date=1131803417">
>:( I don't Fuk*** get it. Why do men lie so much? They are men, shouldn't you act like one. OMFG. This is ridiculous.
he isn't cheating on me, but he still insists on lying about seeing his female coworker outside of work, who he use to date. WTF is that???
I have told him repeatedly, pls do not lie to me, pls do not see this girl outside of work, she is causing problems between us indirectly....he says fine...
:'(
(he sees her once every two weeks when he is at work, she lives 2.5 hrs away)
He isnt cheating on you but insists on lying about it? Something fishy is going on here honey..It may not be physical..but something is going on or he wouldnt insist on lying.. ::)
Then last night, he tells, me I will be working late, i dont want you to get worried.
I check his phone to see the schedule, and what do you know, her name is there @ 3pm. WHY DOES HE DO THIS TO ME. HE claims he is not cheating, i hear her vm's there isnt anything sexy or romantic about them...but why does he feel the god damn need to lie to me. he knows i will find out, then it will be ugly....
does he hate me even though he tells me he loves me?
I dont think he hates you but he certainly doesnt respect you or else he would be honest and quit hiding things. I think you need to have a heart to heart talk with him..without getting angry and try to get to the bottom of the exact nature of his relationship with this woman.. There is no reason you should be hurting like this..The old I am working late excuse raises quite a few red flags for me..
Hang in there sweetie..and try to get to the bottom of it..if he has an honesty defect..then boot him to the curb..plenty of fish in the sea.. ;)
Pisces
Re: (sorry Men) MEN ARE FR****** LIARS lost enigma: Yes I do see what you're saying
Re: (sorry Men) MEN ARE FR****** LIARS Melmoss: I can sooo relate to you on this one. My stbx was doing the same thing to me while we were still living together. He was lying right to my face almost everyday about where he was going etc., etc. . He would come home at 2 or 3 o'clock in the morning and deny anything and everything. They are such big LIARS!!! I got so sick of it, I told him he had to get his butt out!! He did, the following day. He thought he could get away with all of his lies until we sold our home and both moved out. I just couldn't take it anymore. I was physically ill from all of the stress. I couldn't believe that someone that I had spent 10 years with could so easily lie to me. I just want you to know that I feel your PAIN!
