Re: Survival: 2 Questions about how you are doing: Whirlpool: 1. Keeping up my weightlifting program no matter how crappy and down I am.
2. Dwelling on my wife too much and worrying about what she is doing. I have to do better at detaching. Tough when you are separated and stuck in the same house.
Re: Survival: 2 Questions about how you are doing: ohill: 1. I am learning a lot more about who I 'really' am and what happened through reading books, attending divorce recovery class, etc... I am trying my level best to learn and grow from this experience so that when I look back it will be a victory rather than a crushing defeat.
2. I am slack about my exercise/fitness program. I need to get my butt in the gym more often...
Re: Survival: 2 Questions about how you are doing: turboss: My positive thing is that I have started going to church and that is when I feel the best either when I am there or as soon as I have left there.
My bad thing is continuing to think about my husband with his "new girlfriend" and wondering why he gets off scott free and gets to be happy and i am sooo lonely and miserable.
turboss
Survival: 2 Questions about how you are doing: manda: Okay, I'm having a lot of tough days, although I think I'm doing better than last week...Anyway, I'm curious about how others in a lot of emotional pain are doing with their daily life: what they are doing that helps them even in small ways (I'll take small.).
So here are my two questions:
1. What is one thing you think you are doing well or one thing that is helping you, all things considered? (a positive)
2. And what is one daily thing you are feeling guilty about because you are being slack? (a negative)
Me:
1. I am fixing my hair and make-up everyday even if I'm not going somewhere--that helps me feel a little better. Silly, I know, but it helps. I'm afraid if I ever stay in bed and not do it even one day, I'll never do it again.
2. I am not cooking good meals lately. I feel bad for my son. I need to do better there.
Re: Survival: 2 Questions about how you are doing: jadedangel: [color=navy"> 1. Hmm ... good -- well I am running again. Actually caring if I can -- mostly coz well -- you can't cry and take your breathe away at the same time.
2. Bad -- I have gone from a 4.0 student to someone who is barely passing. From a excellent clinician to someone who is "doing fine." I have gone from excelling to something I never thought I would ... average. [/color">
