Re: What a tangled web we weave- confession brandyrobin710: I hate to say this but you should hear me now, crushed. I would take my XBF back in a heartbeat (even after cheating and it would be his second chance) if he could prove to me he was taking time to think about his actions. Right now, he's living with his XGF and it is proving nothing to me. I would not have him back until he has been alone and thought things through but I would give him another chance if he would take this time alone. He's trying to drown the emotions of our breakup right now by going back to someone he felt something for before. It hurts me that he is doing this. The strikes keep adding up against his second chance if he ever came back and despite my prior cheating (which have really made ammends for) I am a good woman and he will hate to lose me when all is said and done :) Show her you deserve a second chance if you truly love her. It could take months to do this and she may not forgive you but if you love her, do your very best to try. You owe it to her and yourself. If she doesn't think you have proved yourself enough, then it is best for yourself to start over again. This time by yourself and learning to understand yourself will only help when you do find someone who will be as good to you as you are to her.
Re: What a tangled web we weave- confession turboss: Go Whiskeygirl...Go Whiskeygirl...GO!!!! You get em' honey...
Tarheel IS a wonderful person and a wonderful father and he doesn't deserve to be called names for voicing his opinions....isn't that what we are here for? I would say the same if the shoe was on the other foot...I am glad that you are here with us crushedman and can give us insight on the "other side of the spectrum", but he merely stated that he was getting frustrated and you got VERY overly defensive there....okay...you guys go to your corners and cannot talk anymore....Crushedman...you have remorse about what you did wrong, right? Aren't we here to help each other, not hurt anymore? NONE OF US DESERVE ANYMORE OF THAT!!!
Keep the peace :)
Turboss
Re: What a tangled web we weave- confession crushedman: Very sound advice, Brandy. i agree- wholeheardedly.
Re: What a tangled web we weave- confession barelybreathing: Very sound advice brandy.
My ex bounced from girl to girl to girl to girl in our long separation. And still clung to me when guilt would ensue. But I was really his punching bag most of the time. So revenge/vengeance, perhaps that is how he felt too.
You cannot have clarity when your constantly being diluded with emotions and interjections of feelings and thoughts from others you are emotional and physically involved with.
Love is not for cowards crushed......you know this deep down. Perhaps you need to cut your losses with both and regroup and move on....with clarity.
Re: What a tangled web we weave- confession crushedman: JEESH- Barelybreathing-
You are TOUGH! Maybe you are right, but c'monl People make mistakes. Try to redeem your faith in people. I am not a bad person. She is not a person. We've done stupid things. Life goes on, one way or another.
