Re: The No-Date Era dgiirl: I need a date! Anyone up for it? :)
It's been about 9.5 months now, and I havent even been trying. Due to my current situation, I dont foresee me dating for atleast another 6 months either. I have to sell my house so I can move to a new city. I dont want to meet anyone here and then end up staying here. I WANT to move. So i dont want to meet anyone. So i'm not dating :)
The No-Date Era Trying2Hope: What is the longest anyone here has gone (after divorce) without dating?
I ask only because I'm pretty sure it will be decades before I ever date seriously again.
Re: The No-Date Era dgiirl: *waves back to fre* come here often? :)
LT, it's not pathetic at all. To be honest, I've only dated 3 guys in my life. My first bf when I was 16. We broke up after 6 months. 2 years later I had a "i dont know what you would call it" with a 23 year old for about 2 months. 2 years after that I met my exh. So based on my past experiences, I'm predicting atleast 2 years of solitude, atleast. Maybe even 4 years b4 i find someone serious.
[me=dgiirl"> looks back and flirts with fre :)[/me">
Re: The No-Date Era RSGinATX: Well, I'm not the longest, I'm sure(I hope!)..but it's been about 10 months so far. It took several months before I even felt ready and during that time I stumbled and fumbled so badly that I got into the attitude of not even trying to date. Once all this holiday business is passed I'll be back out there though...of course by then it'll be about a year.
I could sit around feeling sorry for not being in a relationship for so long, but when I look at my unmarried friends I realize I've been alone a lot less time, in total, than they have. So, I can stay the course until something good comes along.
Re: The No-Date Era freovir: [quote"> I need a date! Anyone up for it? [/quote">
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*waves* [/color"> hi
