Why don't I trust you? metro: You keep asking me why I don't trust you...
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[li"> You Keep lying[/li">
[li"> You said that I can't see my kids, but you can see people who have said that they hate me[/li">
[li"> You tell me and counselors that you have told the people who have treated me poorly, that they have to treat me better or you won't be able to see them anymore.[/li">
[li"> You left the house, and you are with that very person[/li">
[li"> I see you with other people on days when you said you weren't feeling well, and used that as an excuse not to see me. [/li">
[li"> You hid a Christmas card, and said it didn't exist. Later, you say, "I bet YOU had it"[/li">
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So, how do I reconcile your comments...
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[li"> I bet you want to f**k your ex[/li">
[li"> You want to go back to her[/li">
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This is how I reconcile it... You are projecting what you have been doing, and you are trying to erase your guilt.
Re: Why don't I trust you? dgiirl: ha dontcha just love it when they ask you that? Mine use to say all the time "I know you dont trust me but blah blah blah". No kidding I dont trust you. Why the hell should I? You went out, had an affair, lied about it, then confessed, changed your mind 1000 times over the house/furniture division of assets, and you simply left. You tell me you never wanted to get married, wanted a divorce 3 years prior but never said anything, and you want me to trust that you have my best interests at heart? You got mad that I went to see a lawyer "behind your back", changed the locks, and closed my joint bank account with you. I'm not a fool. I do NOT trust you. Give me ONE good reason to trust you?
Metro, keep looking out for yourself hun. She's just shifting the guilt back onto you. You're doing everything you SHOULD be doing.
