the final breaking point! kipeachi: okay, really need to vent, i'm so mad! >:(
Last nite I had a friend over w/ her two kids. Well my son and her daughter thought they would play "spiderman" and after getting on to them for jumping off the couch, my son jumped and slamed head first in the door way of my bedroom. A knot the size of my fist sweeled up within seconds right between his eyes on his forehead , and it really frecked me out cause I never seen anything like it, so of course I rush him into the emercency room! I called my stbxh to let him know what happened and what I was doing.... his reply was" you like want me to come up there or something?" I of course couldn't believe that he wasn't more concerned, so I said "guess not" and he said "well call me back and let me know what happens..." Well after getting an okay at the hospital, me still upset after this, feeling alone and ticked that he couldn't be more concerened... I wasn't going to call him back, but I thought I should call and tell him that he was okay, so when I called she aswered, handed the phone to him and he aswered the phone like had been sleeping! I said "he's fine" and started to hang up and he said something so I asked "what'? and he said " why weren't you watching him?" OMG! I hung up the phone! I"m was so ticked, and still am! I can not believe he would be that way! I'm just so upset! and now I wished that I hadn't even bothered calling him, but I thought if anything he would be concerned, but no!! I'm so done with him, I'm so done trying........ I think that has like pushed me to the point of hatred for him, anger, and wish he would dissapear off the face of the freaking earth. I am so mad !!!!!!! I have been nice up to now, (pulling out the artillery now!!!) no more being nice, I wish a hole in the ground would open and swallow him up!!! grrrrrrrrrrrrrrr. And what hurts the worst is that I realize now that he just doent' give a crap about his son either..........how sad.......and I hate him for it............ I gave him way more credit for what he's worth, and now I feel like a fool for it. I actally cared what he would think before doing it, cause I didnt' want to piss him off, well I hope he like his christmas present ,he's going to get, child support papers along w/ being served divorce papers! merry f*cking christmas !!!!!!!!
Re: the final breaking point! superwife: Well you know the old saying, you're damned if you do, damned if you don't. If you didn't call him, can you imagine the crap you would have gotten??
I'm so waiting for something to happen like that with my daughter. (I'm not really waiting, but it's bound to happen, as she's bouncing off the wals, lol)
You said he doesn't give a crap about his son. Does he see him? Is your ex going to petition for joint custody? B/c that's one of the big issues- joint decision making. Sure he doesn't have to show up in the ER, but he'll have to be notified (just as he'd have to do the same).
And I'm sure he's the perfect father, could have preventing him from jumping off the couch.
Re: the final breaking point! ChiefWiggum: [quote author=lostlove link=topic=22592.msg210052#msg210052 date=1134244650"> I hung up the phone! [/quote">
This was the right thing to do. Should've done it on the first phone call too.
CW
