the goose story
as with any or most of us, i thought i had my true l...ve. well, i didnt. i met her through other friends. we done almost every thing together. we had fun. we were inseperable. then our first daughter, who is now 8 was hatched. then, the only little thing that was wrong was the normal marriage stuff. sex was on the decline. we had to make appointments to do things. but it was fine. then my other daughter was borned. she is 3.
this is where the sex went to hell. she was tired. she was over worked. i worked my ass off 55-70 hours or more a week. i had a race car, that i sold to purchase and make our house go onto owned land.... she seemed really distant. she worked till 7 at night, 4 days a week. she also had supper all ready for her atleast 6 nights a week. she wouldnt cook. she hardly would talk. she yelled at the kids constantly.
i asked her to seek help for her mood swings, and the way she treated the kids. she also had NO SEX drive now, at all. her getting done work at 7, was becoming 730, then 745 then 800 then 815.
she hated the microwave, so i bought her a new one. i moved the old one, and a checkbook fell out. it had a post office box on it. i asked her what was going on, and she said she had that for work, and she was trying to straighten OUR checkbook out. i looked in the closet, cause i thought the PO box was different than work, and it was. but i found 2 LOVE CARDS that were NOT from me, and not signed. then, i was cleaning our yukon out, and i came across a bra. it wasnt her size.
to be continued. (it gets better)
Re: the goose story smokin: SO, i decided to watch what was going on. i followed her one day, and she met MY BEST FRIEND behind a house lot. she came out. he stayed in. i was going to go in and rip his face off. she told me i had it all wrong, and that it wasnt what it seemed...
SO, i told her to pack her shit and get out. she followed me, crying bla bla bla. i wanted to seek counciling. she left the kids and me. i tried to talk to her, and she was being a bitch.. we finally talked her into counciling 1 time.
NOW, heres where the crap-o=la hits the fan-o-la. she came back for a week. i came home unexpectidly one day, and i catch her and her best female friend in our hot tub. they were very used to each other. something was wrong. she ditched me again a week later, and thats the end. she asked for a divorce, said it wasnt because of anyone else. i didnt believe that, so i ended up catching her at his house one morning. *make note, do not tell best friends mom, you are going to put the puke face in the hospital.*
so, fooliish me, i decide and she decides to try it again. then puke face tells her anything he can to get her to hate me. she put a PO on me, with false implications. i filed for divorce...... i had the kids 19-22 days a month. but i wanted the kids to not lose their mom at the same time.
so. i cried through thanksgiving, and HATED christmas. i sat here by my computer with a knife, looking up suicide, and stuff. i even went as far to call a hotline. i was devistated. what kind of dad, breaks down and crys night after night, with your kids here.
so i also find out that she wiped 3500 out of our account, traded our vehicle after lying to the salesman. then i find out that they are/were basically together almost a year before shit hit the fan.
BUT I WAS IN L...VE and wanted her. i tried. we lost the sitter due to her checks bouncing, and she was really nice, till the day i got them in the sitters. then on march 5th, after only talking to her 2-3 times since xmas, my daughter tells me, that her boyfriend, my exbf is hitting my daughter on the ass. i call and tell her, that i will AND ARE GOIING TO punch his teeth out.
too be contined(get better for the better)
Re: the goose story smokin: so, SHE helps him put a PO on me. that was the day i decided that any woman, or man, that choses the other man, or woman over your OWN KID
IS NOT worth the time of day. i was then jumped by 3 guys at the bar*coincidence?* but failed to tell them i can hold my own. i got a purple eye from 3 guys. *pansies
any ways life got better. i got out. had as much fun as possible. i got divorced, and i am still alone, but only because of my own will. i could be attached, but i chose not too, till i find out who i am now. i was afraid of being alone. i was scared crapless. we have joint custody, week on week off, and other than missing my girls, everything is 2000% better than last year. i hardly think about her, and i have hardly no memory about her.
this thanksgiving was alot better, and christmas was. and then the holidays just go, and you dont think twice. they are all moved in together, and i havent talked to her in a year and 3 months, and we have 2 kids, and they are perfectly normal WITHOUT us having contact. so you can do it too.
SO BASICALLY, people new and old, things WILL improve, and slowly get better. i takes a while, but everytime you have contact with them, it starts you back at ground zero.
this is my story, and i hope you all a great christmas. it may not feel like it, but every day it gets a little easier. and baby steps is what we need. just dont do nothing youll regret. find something to think about when you have a thought about them. it gets easier, and youll see. hang in there.
. anyone need anything, let me know.
AND ps.*they are still together, and i think ill give him 100.00 for taking her. i was worth it*
GTM
Re: the goose story hudson: Goose,
You kick ass man. Thanks for sharing that. You deserve so much better than that woman could've ever given you. There's someone out there who will appreciate who you are.
Have a fantastic Christmas and New Year.
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AND ps.*they are still together, and i think ill give him 100.00 for taking her. i was worth it*
GTM
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Lmao!
Peace.
Re: the goose story flyaway: Wow. Goose. I'm glad you shared with us...thanks for the encouragement. :) and definately that last line was hilarious! LMAO!
