My Story ncm: My wife and I have only been married 9 months. We were engaged for over a year and got engaged after only seeing each other for 6 months. So we've been together about 2 1/2 yrs.
When we met we were both using cocaine "recreationally" and partying together. Before we got married we vowed to stop using forever. I did...she hasnt...
She moved into my home that I own and didnt work for almost 2 years, but is now working, although she misses a lot of days of work cause she's "sick" - usually on Mon/Tues - from the weekend
She lies about Dr's visits to go score drugs. I've even gone as far as planting a GPS device in the car to trace where's she's going and inevitably she tells me she's going to the dr's when in fact shes going to her dealer.
She feels as an adult she has the "right" to do whatever she wants. I feel its my "right" to be with someone who doesnt use drugs. I want a family, but not with her.
She always talks about wanting to have a baby, but I make excuses to avoid sex cause I'm afraid she'll get pregnant.
I cant deal with her lies anymore and I need to get her out. I'm afraid to confront her cause shes get psychotic on me and tell's me I'm delusional and freaks out and frankly she scare's me lol (I know, not funny).
At this point, I'm trying to get the strength for a final confrontation that'll inevitably result in me kicking her out.
Please tell me I have the right to not have to put up with this...
Any insight is greatly appreciated
Re: My Story Trying2Hope: I suggest having a close family member, friend, or even the police there when you make this "last confrontation."
Drug abuse is no laughing matter.
Re: My Story john: If you think she will keep use the drugs, then by any means let her go.
I know it is a very hard dicision but you have to do what is right. Dont ever try to make her pregnant NO NO.
I hope it helps
