The request lines are now open DLA: I've been reading alot of this board, and it seems to me to be many Betrayed Spouses.
I'm one of the few Wandering Spouses who is hurting and doesn't mind sharing or answering what I can.
Re: The request lines are now open JNA: Yup seems to be the "trend"...
I was hurt in that manner and have lived long past it...
Sharing is Caring...
JNA
Re: The request lines are now open dumpling: dla- are you for real?
i'd like to think that my husband hurts, but it seems that he is drowning his sorrows in the bossom of his filthy whore stepsister. i can't understand why he would wander from me, claiming i am too emotional and no fun, right into the bed of a bi-polar, drug using alcoholic. um, yeah, smooth sailing and good times ahead. i'd like to understand some of his actions. i can't believe that he hurts. his wallet might hurt, but i think that's it.
i really am sorry that you are hurting. are you hurting for the loss of your marriage? regretting breaking your vows?
Re: The request lines are now open DLA: yes on both counts. And yes, I am real.
Sorrowful for the pain I caused, for the loss of my marriage and exwife. I miss her hourly.
I'm sorry that so many WS seem unrepentant.
Re: The request lines are now open barelybreathing: Thanks for coming on board. You are brave, we ojarians have a tendency to snap rather profusely for wayward spouses/partners.
Could you share some of your story some? It would be arrogant and fruitless for us betrayed spouses to not try to understand from the other side.
What would interest me is the foresight you had before it happened, the insight you had during it happening, and the hindsight when it was over.
I appreciate your candor, we betrayed spouses may pounce on your posts and responses, but please understand it comes from extreme hurt. So be patient with us, as we will try to be with you.
BB
