New, in pain and pregnant
Re: New, in pain and pregnant flyaway: Seabreezy.....OMG girl! I'm sooooo sorry that this is painful for you instead of a joyous occasion. Yes, I think you find a huge amount of support for you here at this site, you have come to the right place for any and all kinds of questions, ventings, or just plain ramblings you may have.
Welcome. I'm sorry, but you ARE welcome here.
First piece of advice: [glow=red,2,300"> Don't leave the house![/glow">
If you kicked him out, I think you should try to hold on to the place for some stability for you and your daughter, if you can.....fill us in on more detail, and I'm sure you'll get alot of helpful advice here.
Be strong, and know we are here for you! :)
Re: New, in pain and pregnant WhiskeyGirl: Welcome Seabreazy....I am so sorry :'(
I know how hurt you are right now....my ex did the same thing to me with his ex girlfriend in my first pregnancy....(actually he did it in the second one too) and same thing when I caught him it was all "oh I'm so sorry, it'll never happen again, give me another chance, blah, blah, blah...I fell for it...and once again caught him sneaking off with the whore. Why? I don't get it.....why do they do that? Just leave....wasn't it enough to hurt us once..they want to do it repeatedly?
Anyway, girl...I am so sorry...I have totally been where you are.....and you did they right thing by kicking his sorry ass out....mine never changed...I took him back again and again....we now have 3 kids...he left me right after our youngest was born.....a leopard doesn't change his spots.
I don't have much advise...just know that you are not alone...and that it does get better. I am happier than I ever was with him, my girls are all happy and well adjusted, I know now that it was for the best....but I do remember the pain.
It gets better...keep posting...
Again, welcome to ojar :)
Re: New, in pain and pregnant mikelr11: i am so sorry. please know that we are all here for you 24/7. remember that now is when you need friends and family and you should not be afraid to run to them for support also. God bless you and you are in all of our prayers
Re: New, in pain and pregnant alonewith2: Take out the part of the OW being pregnant, and that's where I once was, too. I can totally relate to what you are going through. I'm 3 years removed from those first few days, but I can still remember what it was like. If you need someone to talk to, don't hesitate!