Re: Is he really that stupid?? threetimeloser: Your lawyer gave you bad advice, Imagine that?! I hate lawyers, and I almost became one. Came to my senses in time but I know a thing or two. Be careful or I will see expensive charges. The delay means one extra day in which he gets to charge you. Had he sent the papers in time to your ex that a large portion of the divorce handled by now. Read up a bit so that you do not call him to ask questions you can find for yourself. got to divorcenet.com or nolo.com. Also, don't let the lawyer fill your hed that you can get some outrageous claims. Play fair and it will be less expensive for you.
And the order to pay is also standard. The courts weren't going to let your ex just go without making sure support payments.
The hardest thing to understand is that your case is no more special than anyone elses. Divorce is a game with rules and they are usually a straight line unless you order a jury trial and that is a whole different ballgame.
Good luck.
Re: Is he really that stupid?? snkpack5: Probably.
Is he really that stupid?? starzluv: does he really believe that since (until now) i did not have to pay rent, electric or oil, that i don't need money?? does he think there is a diaper fairy who just comes and drops off diapers? does he not realise it takes money for just about everything? i still have to have gas in the car pay the car insurance (which went down yeah) my phone bill, and then of course like i said diapers and everything else i need to buy to keep me and the kids from being stinky and gross. does he think it's all free? does he not relise how much i spend on diapers alone? i know he use to have a brain, where the he!! did it go cuz he sure doesn't seem to have one anymore.
Re: Is he really that stupid?? alonewith2: It's hard for the other parent to realize the expense side especially if they don't have to buy/provide anything!!!
Re: Is he really that stupid?? wendieann: LOL ;D
I think stupidness is common... My STBXH hasn't given me a dime since he ran off with the OW, and it bugs the heck out of me that his paychecks go to them partying, etc.
Meanwhile I have 4 kids, 2 in diapers, all the bills you said, PLUS, all the bills he left me with, etc.etc. >:(
I know that someday it will come back to me and he will end up paying me back child support/spousal support, etc....and then we will see who is laughing! ;D
He is crying right now he is broke...whatever, he left a family of 7 and supported us...I guess his OW and their mansion of a house is expensive!? Not my problem... ::)
During his supervised visits I have to send diapers etc...yet, he has to PAY for the visit!! LOLOLOLOLOLOLOL ;D And the OW isn't allowed to go...
What goes around, comes around...
The diaper fairy visits me too...and the food fairy, the money tree keeps growing in the back yard, and it rains dollar bills... LOL
It's a good thing my STBXH makes sure he has beer to drink, gas for his snowmachine and the OW car... ::) ::) I would hate to see him put out... ;D LOL ::)
