Love one day.....Hate the next

Love one day.....Hate the next audi_driver: I don't kow what to do at this point. I have been seprated from my wife since the day after Thanksgiving. She made plans to go out with my family the week before we separated, she had Thanksgiving at my family's house, sat on my lap, kissed me, told me she loved me, had sex with me and the next day she served me with divorce papers.

Now she is the most evil person in the world. All she does is try to detroy me. There is a bitter child custody battle going on. She left the state with my daughter and the judge allowed her to go. He admitted he made a mistake letting her leave the state but he said he will not overturn his decision. I have to wait for the child custody hearing next month. I was the primary caretaker for our daughter for the last year. I worked from home and took care of her while my wife worked 49 hours a week. Now that we are divorced she is only working 26 ours a week and asking me for $2,000 a month.

My daughter is saying things about another guy but when I ask my wife about it she says I put things in her head.

I am confused, hurt and angry all in one.......Everything she does now seems to be taking my love for her (trying to work things out) and taking it and using it against me.




Re: Love one day.....Hate the next snkpack5: I offer no advice audi just support.  Welcome.  I know its tough.  I know there are times when you will need to be alone, but if you need to talk know that we are here for you.

It does get better . . . .
 Re: Love one day.....Hate the next audi_driver: [quote author=snkpack5 link=topic=23920.msg223179#msg223179 date=1137005413">
I offer no advice audi just support.  Welcome.  I know its tough.  I know there are times when you will need to be alone, but if you need to talk know that we are here for you.

It does get better . . . .
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I appreciate it. The hardest thing for me is that I don't have a good network of friends to speak to. So I hold things in for an entire week until I can get to counseling
 Re: Love one day.....Hate the next Peaceandquiet: Well ya do now. Welcome and sorry your here.  My wife did something similar but not as abrupt and mean.  She was doing the love you so much, have sex thing the day before she woke up and decided that she wanted a divorce. I think there must be a way to get your daughter back to you, if the judge tells you he was wrong, I think there must be some other way to pull her back before next month.  I wish there was something I could say to help you deal with it but like you will hear many people say, it just takes time.
 Re: Love one day.....Hate the next audi_driver: [quote author=Peaceandquiet link=topic=23920.msg223185#msg223185 date=1137005868">
Well ya do now. Welcome and sorry your here.  My wife did something similar but not as abrupt and mean.  She was doing the love you so much, have sex thing the day before she woke up and decided that she wanted a divorce. I think there must be a way to get your daughter back to you, if the judge tells you he was wrong, I think there must be some other way to pull her back before next month.  I wish there was something I could say to help you deal with it but like you will hear many people say, it just takes time.
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Am I crazy to want to work things out with someone who continues to try to destroy me both emotionally and physically?

It seems like the more she treats me like crap, the more I try to fix things.