Re: This is my story..........take care with it. Cherry: [quote author=aphrodite link=topic=24078.msg226809#msg226809 date=1137562861">
You have a way with words... you really do- I think besides your personal story you are a writer.. why not look into that? use your gift of writing to your advantage..[/quote">
This is my dream.........maybe it is time I pursued it. Thanks for the pointer :D
Re: This is my story..........take care with it. timetobefree: Cherry, the strength and determination you have shown just to go forward is amazing. You have my utmost respect.
Amy
Re: This is my story..........take care with it. WinterFell: I have no questions....only this. Every choice you make now going forward you're making as an adult in charge of 2 children. You have the ability to make GOOD choices, GOOD decisions. Therapy was a good decision and choice.
Your past is horrible. Truley a nightmare beyond what anyone should go through. I sat reading every word and felt your pain. I also though hope you see your future. To try and break the pattern that you have created of believing you deserve to be treated like crap. You are a very very intelligent woman who seems capable of creating the tools to give your children the life you never had.
Dating right now I don't think should be an option. You're not in a place where you love yourself enough, so you'll keep attracting people who feed off insecurity and weakness. Keep going to the therapy, join groups in your area, and keep meeting real people. Ojar is wonderful, but never lose site that it is virtual and shouldn't replace support in the real world.
Hats off to you Cherry...I would never even give that advice if I thought for a second you sounded like you didn't have the strength to do it. You've gone through a lot. Don't let the jerks from your past rule your future.
Thanks for sharing your story.
D
Re: This is my story..........take care with it. ajw: To have such a great outlook on life after such a desperate life story is amazing,if you truly believe in karma then your definitely due some good luck.
I can see why it was theraputic for you to write this story,i'm sure many other people will find it inspiring too,because you have experienced so much yet still have a positive outlook.......
keep strong
Andy
p.s.......stay away from the coffee.....and its still saturday in case you were'nt sure.....lol[right"> [/right">
Re: This is my story..........take care with it. sheydp: Thank you for writing this. You know how I feel about you, you know where I stand. We will talk. Many times. We will work on things, together. It WILL be better.
Shey
