Re: HOW?!?!?!?! Whirlpool: When they say you can still get pregnant on Depo they are talking a 0.3-3% chance. No contraception is 100% and all are advised use of a backup.
As for the other stuff, if you don't talk to your man you cannot blame him for not pleasing you in bed. It is that simple. I have a friend who is now divorced who said her husbands idea of oral sex was licking twice, sticking a finger in and out, licking again, sticking a finger in and out, rinse, repeat. I asked her if she tried to guide him at all and she said no because she was afraid to hurt his feelings! So 10 years of bad oral sex over a fear of hurting some pride? It would take one nut for him to get over it, lol.
Re: HOW?!?!?!?! alonewith2: Let us know how it goes. Hopefully this is a bigger issue for you than him.
Re: HOW?!?!?!?! Trillian: Ok, I am stopping by his house, since it is on the way home....not really, but close enough. I have decided enough of this. He needs to know, I need to tell him. I am cheating him if I do not talk about it with him.
Re: HOW?!?!?!?! Trillian: Not worried about hurting his feelings, just dunno what to say to him. I have never had this talk with anyone else.
Re: HOW?!?!?!?! Trillian: ok, since we all agree, I am not wanting to freak him out....
How do I call and tell him I need to talk to him, without him freaking out about it??