Ya know .. jadedangel: [color=navy"> Through all in all ... I cannot believe some of the things people let become issues in their relationship ... it is absolutely unreal and absurd to me ... I can't believe how people don't talk ... I can't believe how people make things out to be more than they are .. and I can't believe how they let things slip in between their fingers. It's amazing to me.
I guess that is why I just don't get my ex -- we didn't have this --- boy .. maybe me keeping things on even playing grounds ended up screwing me. [/color">
Re: Ya know .. Trillian: Wow Jaded...
You know, I don't think that you meant this directly to me, but I must say that I have taken it as such. I am trying my hardest to be upfront and honest with W. But there are things from my past that is making it hard for me to be this way with him.
I am not saying that this is right. I am not saying that this is fair. He knows that there is something wrong, he also knows that I need to come to terms with it before he gets involved. Me and him are on such a higher playing ground then I was with any of my other relationships, and I am scared. He knows me, he knows my past. We are just really trying to work through it together.
Re: Ya know .. jadedangel: [color=navy"> I am reallly not going to start this again Loshyra ... I am so not in the mood to have you try and kick me while I am down ...
No it was not directed at you ... there are a million people that come to this site .. and I read through their stories and I am absolutely amazed at the things that get between people in their relationship ... Please don't make this about you ... coz it's not. [/color">
Re: Ya know .. Trillian: I am not trying to get into it with you either. I just wanted to clarify my stance from yesterday. I know that it is wrong of me to keep this from him. I know that I need to tell him about it. I know all that crap.....I am just not ready today to really do it...he knows this, I know this! I really just don't think it would be fair to drop it on him without me being ready.
I won't think this is about me then.... ;D Long week, long month...LONG YEAR
Re: Ya know .. Peaceandquiet: *trying to steer the car away from the wreck*
This world has become about trival things and I think what Jaded was trying to say is that so many people now a days let little things come between them instead of looking at the big picture of the realtionship. So often now I see so many once happy couples destroyed by one little thing. So much anger is built up on a disagreement or a gesture. Relaxing in a relationship is key, enjoy life and the things around you and don't fight..its just not worth the energy!
