Re: Nothing will be the same again sheydp: I agree with Seyfert... The innocence and newness are beautiful - don't lose those memories... But there is a beauty in working through things... In having misunderstandings and fights and even meanness, and knowing you can still be together. That your love is stronger than a fairytale newness can ever be. Your love is more mature, more real, and based on the fullness of the human experience, good and bad, beautiful and ugly... and survived. Congratulations....
Shey
Nothing will be the same again cc: Even though me and my ex are back together...
Life will never be the same...I'll never feel that same happiness I once felt...
Because theres still pieces of my heart missing...
and even if those missing pieces are returned...
things still won't be the same...
even if we put it in the past...
we can't hide the ugly words and the scars...
At least though....now...he's there to give me a little of my old happiness...
I've said it before, I know...but it still doesn't seem fair...that I loosed half of my happiness...because of a lie that someone else told......
how is that right...? How is that able to just happen...?
Re: Nothing will be the same again JNA: [quote author=cc link=topic=24606.msg231517#msg231517 date=1138233964">
Even though me and my ex are back together...
Life will never be the same...I'll never feel that same happiness I once felt...
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There in lies the problem...
After the first break up and getting back together it is never the same
For me I couldn't trust her anymore...Kind of like walking on eggshells thinking ok when is the next little breakup where her mind says "I'm not ready"...
Maybe all of that will return for you...Time will tell
For me for now on if I am in a relationship and we break up then that is it...
Move on over
I do hope things work out for you guys and you can get past this event in your life...
Hang in there
JNA
Re: Nothing will be the same again MISSYMISSY: I can relate to everything you are saying....It's never the same. I for one know that the goodness that started in our relationship was pure, was the most wonderful feeling and time of my life. We try so hard to recapture the magic , the fullness that filled our whole lives....but...it's never the same - The magic is there in our hearts and in our minds but it is forever lost on hurtful words and disappointments and feelings of betrayal and lonliness.
It's so hard to tear down the walls that have built up without our knowledge. It's almost like it was built while we were away. We were away however - we were lost in our own dreamland of the way things used to be ..before....
Good luck on your reconciliation. I hope your able to tear down those walls and find everything Right again.
Re: Nothing will be the same again cc: Thanks JNA, Thanks Missy...everything you say sounds about right...thanks again...hope we can get back the old magic too.
