Hes divorced, does he still love her? lovenwonder: My boyfriend and I have been together a year now. We live together and love eachother very much. We both have been divorced, but i have a son with my xh. My boyfriend is everything i have ever wanted in a man, and I love him more than i ever though possible. I just cant seem to ever stop thinking about him and his ex's marriage and how it was. It drives me crazy. Everything i do i question myself if its the way she did it or is it better. I wonder if he still loves her. If he misses her. How she was, and how he loved her. I think it may have alot to do with the fact that when i moved in, there were still signs of her around the house. Found their wedding photos and it crushed me. He tells me all the time that they were young and stupid, it was the biggest mistake of his life. I just cant get her out of my mind. He knows nothing about how i feel about her, and their X marriage. Should i bring it up or just get over it and let him love me?
Re: Hes divorced, does he still love her? JNA: [quote author=lovenwonder link=topic=25026.msg236623#msg236623 date=1138934089">
Everything i do i question myself if its the way she did it or is it better. I wonder if he still loves her. [/quote">
Answer...
He is with you and not her...Right
No do not bring it up in my opinion...Just mine
Be you...
You are the one he "loves"
IMO
JNA
I say this because I had the same situation with someone else that brought it up and I would not have went back to my ex after being with her for "anyhing"...
Re: Hes divorced, does he still love her? barnbum_05: I think it is normal for us women to think about are mens x's. It tells us alittle about them. The kind of women they liked, so on. My boyfriend left another girl for me . . . in my opinnion shes prettier than me, skinner, and so on. Everytime i see her i think of them together, i get this feeling inside. I watch him to see if hes looking at her. I want to know why he left her for me, what did he see in me and not her. Stupid stuff like that. Im not sure why we do it, but we do. Just dont let it ruin your relationship (dont bring it up) because men want to know that you can trust them. It almost cost me mine. But your not alone!!
Tiera
