Re: Tops and bottoms alonewith2: [quote author=Topaz link=topic=25105.msg237975#msg237975 date=1139193448">
[quote author=alonewith2 (SNB) link=topic=25105.msg237847#msg237847 date=1139178910">
I'm a dominant bottom! I prefer my coworkers to be more bottom, my friends to be the same as me, and my men to be passive tops!
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Do you like feeling competitive with your friends? I feel bored by my friends if there isn't friendly competition between us. A friendship just doesn't have enough spice for me without it.
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For me it's not about competition than it is about being interesting. I don't want friends who will want me to make all their decisions for them (you know like what were going to do for the night, what store to shop at, what restaurant to eat at, etc). On the other hand, I don't want them constantly demanding that I do whatever they want. So I want them to be dominant bottoms like me....willing to make a decision, but also willing to go along with someone else's decision!
Re: Tops and bottoms alonewith2: I'm a dominant bottom! I prefer my coworkers to be more bottom, my friends to be the same as me, and my men to be passive tops!
Re: Tops and bottoms Topaz: [quote author=alonewith2 (SNB) link=topic=25105.msg237847#msg237847 date=1139178910">
I'm a dominant bottom! I prefer my coworkers to be more bottom, my friends to be the same as me, and my men to be passive tops!
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Do you like feeling competitive with your friends? I feel bored by my friends if there isn't friendly competition between us. A friendship just doesn't have enough spice for me without it.
Tops and bottoms Topaz: I'm not sure if this really belongs in dating, so here goes...
I went to a party with a friend of mine last night and I met a very cute man (actually that has very little bearing on the story, which is why it's here) and we were talking when he looked at my friend and me and asked:
"Who is the bottom and who is the top in your relationship?"
Me: "What?!"
Him: "Who is the dominant one and who is the passive one here? I just saw a documentary about lesbians, and all the women in the movie said that there was always a dominant partner and a passive partner, or as they called it, a top and a bottom."
My friend and I started laughing (we LOVE impertinent questions!) and we said, "But we're not gay!"
Him: "Whatever, man. It doesn't really matter if you're romantically involved or not. So what are you?" He looked at my friend and said, "You're the bottom. You're very passive, but you'll end up getting your way."
She laughed and said, "You know, you're right."
Him: "And you [looking at me"> ...you're a top, baby, and you love other tops, don't you? You like that power struggle...I could never make you happy, because I'm such a bottom."
Cool party conversation starter, besides him being on the money. What about you? Are you a top or a bottom? Are you active or passive?
Re: Tops and bottoms snkpack5: I float somewhere in the middle, bumping my head against the tops and sh*tting on the bottoms.
