Well, it was bound to happen eventually.... LifeisBetter: Today, just like every other day, I go out to lunch at my usual place. I am pulling into the parking spot and there is this guy staring at me, stopped in his tracks. I was about to ask him what his problem was - I mean he was STARING at me dead in the eyes. It took only a second but I finally figured out who it was. my ex-husband. I haven't seen or spoke to him in nearly 2 years and here I see him today (of all days).
Well, he is married... to the woman he cheated on me with. Part of me feels that I should feel sad about this. So he married her. Wow, a woman SO COMPLETELY different than me. I said to him "I thought you said you never wanted to marry her?" His reply was "Well, I guess I lost a bet so, Yeah, I'm married." I was surprised to hear they won't be having any kids. He always wanted to be a Dad - but now he is a step-daddy to 6 kids (one of which is only 8 years younger than him!)
I felt no feelings when I saw him - I didn't feel one twich of pain or sorrow or missing him. I kinda felt sorry for him. He was surprised that I am not married yet, and he did ask me if I am dating someone. I said yes. Now I just can't wait to go home tonight and spend the evening with a very special someone and take stock at how improved my life is and how far I have really come. I guess this is the final closure for me. I always wondered if he married her. Now my questions are answered.
Re: Well, it was bound to happen eventually.... snkpack5: Wow,
Your attitude about this whole situation speaks volumes.
Congrats on being the bigger person.
Re: Well, it was bound to happen eventually.... Batman: Way to go kid. Happy Valentine's Day. Enjoy it.
Re: Well, it was bound to happen eventually.... Seeker: Bravo!!!!!!
Re: Well, it was bound to happen eventually.... brokenbaby: Good for you! Amazing! :)
