Roar Cherry: So my ex calls and cancels the visitation for tonight. When I ask why he says no particular reason they just got on my nerves this weekend. I dont have the patience for them. They are with you or my parents most of the time and they just get too wild. Okay so that is a sign that you should see them less you pathetic excuse for a man.
THEY ARE NOT A FREAKIN APPOINTMENT THAT YOU CAN CANCEL
He might cancel next week too cuz he will have them the last weekend of this month all weekend.
Im so pissed I can barely breathe.
I dont wanna be the one standing there left to explain when they realize they are not important to him.
In fact every male (I guess it has only been 2 cuz I am careful about dragging people in and out of their lives) has f**king walked out on them without a backwards glance. Seems like there are many men who say one thing but whose actions do not match what a good person and father should be.
Im getting so discouraged and angry.
Re: Roar PiscesGoddess: I AGREE 1 million PERCENT Cherry..!!!
Re: Roar wendieann: OH, I hear YA~! My STBXH called and cancelled 2 VISITS... >:( (supervised)! A total of 3 HOURS of visitation! >:( Why? Because he "had to work"... ::) Okay, I know his work schedule, he doesn't work on SUNDAY, or Wed. night! >:(
I was so mad.. Meanwhile, he is fighting for EOW? :P Why? He doesn't have the time now for them!
In the month of January he saw my 7 month old girl, and 2 yr son, for 5 HOURS... YEP...a whopping 5 HOURS... :o Okay, lets back track a bit... he didn't see them at ALL in October, November, or December..........
Figure the math. 2 hour visit on Sunday. 1 hour on Wed.
Oh, and the sunday he cancelled, he snowmobilied with the OW to XMILS' house... (she lives in the same area as me)... gee...how can he be out there sledding with g/f, and cancel his visit??? >:( Thankfully the rest of the people on my block think it is pretty sick how he can do that to me and the children. Let alone sled by our house, with his affair, and cancel seeing his children!
All the better for me in the long run, but incredibly unfair for the innocent children he helped create!
Just proves he never wanted the father role in the first place... :(
grrr
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has f**king walked out on them without a backwards glance. Seems like there are many men who say one thing but whose actions do not match what a good person and father should be.
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Yes, my STBXH wanted so much to be part of my teens lives, and he is the ONLY father they have ever known.... and he walked out on them.. >:( "I didn't adopt them, they aren't mine..." Gee, but for 5 yrs you helped me raise them, disappline them, praise them, play with them, etc.etc. ??? He even acted upset they didn't call him DAD... I am glad they didn't... >:(
SO, my teens are v.upset, even more that he doesn't want anything to do with their little brother or sister either.... :(
It is sooo hard.... I feel for you...
