Today is not so bad ga_sunshyne: K, folks....today marks my one year divorce anniversary (is there such a thing??) and so far...it hasn't been as bad as I was expecting it to be. Of course..the day isn't over yet, but I am hoping that I'll make it through without any set backs. As long as I don't have any contact with the XH, I think it'll pass just fine. But I am finding that the longer the day draws out, the more I start to think about it and I am just hopin' that I don't fall into a slump this evening.
Now that I have been officially single for a year now...guess it's time to get up dust off my britches and climb onto the dating wagon again... :-\
Weird, I want something to do...but I don't wanna put any effort into it. Just tired of not having someone to hold me, call me...send me e-mails for no reason.
Am I expecting too much too soon???
:'(
sunshyne
Re: Today is not so bad JNA: Just give yourself time to heal...
Sometimes rushing things is the biggest mistake we can make even though it feels "so" right at the time
I have come to the resolve that I am not going to date for a long time...
Take some time for yourself and just go through it...Think things through and heal
Stay Strong
JNA
Sometimes you meet the best people by not looking for them...
Re: Today is not so bad CinciChic: [quote author=ga_sunshyne link=topic=25584.msg243017#msg243017 date=1140030219">
Just tired of not having someone to hold me, call me...send me e-mails for no reason.
Am I expecting too much too soon???
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I can relate to the things you want... and also can relate to the not wanting to put in the effort, just to find myself in a let down situation. But if you feel you are ready to get back out there, then go for it. You do not have "date", start out slow bu just hangin out with friends and meet new people. you will know when you are ready to move farther.
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Sometimes you meet the best people by not looking for them...
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totally agree wiff Jeff on this one
Re: Today is not so bad ga_sunshyne: THanks JNA...
really good advice...I do have really good friends...very supportive...and a lot of them are guys. Guys that want to date me, but at the same time....they understand my reluctance and maybe by us hanging out as just friends for a while will make the dating transition a bit easier....
Heck, I don't know. I have never really dated anyone other than my XH so it's a weird situation to me. Just being around guys makes me uneasy...I feel as if I am cheating....On who, I have no clue...but I do. :-\
