last night was bad EssieDotCom: last night i went to bed and went to sleep fine but woke up at 2:30, and just started to think. and the more I thought the more i cried and i just couldnt controll myself. Next thing i know i look at the clock and it's 3:30. then I remembered something someone said to me "if he wants out so bad why hasn't he filed anything....let go and let God, and if he really wants out so bad he will file." which at the time was sort of a sigh bc i had cried out so loudly and long, that my face was beat red and I was praying out to God to please create a pain killer for this kind of pain. Of course most of us wish there were a pain killer for this; but hey a girl can wish! how do you get over having nights and days like this? how do you make yourself stop thinking?
Re: last night was bad CinciChic: [quote author=EQwidowX2B link=topic=25587.msg243052#msg243052 date=1140033067">
how do you get over having nights and days like this? how do you make yourself stop thinking?
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sorry to say, you don't!
There are night I wake up out of a dead sleep and the oonly thing that pops in my head is HIM, I HATE it! but it just happens
Re: last night was bad WHITEFLAG: My wife has already filed. I was arguing with her the prior night to your post and I literally collapsed the next morning when I woke up. Tests show everything is ok. Stressssssss...............
Re: last night was bad IlliniGirl: I'm sorry that you are/were having such a hard time honey. I can assure you that eventually things will get better, but it can be pretty tough until you get to that point.
Know that whatever you need, we are here for you, and that you will come out of this a stronger woman.
many Hugs,
~AB
Re: last night was bad Topaz: [quote author=EQwidowX2B link=topic=25587.msg243052#msg243052 date=1140033067">
Next thing i know i look at the clock and it's 3:30. then I remembered something someone said to me "if he wants out so bad why hasn't he filed anything....let go and let God, and if he really wants out so bad he will file." how do you get over having nights and days like this? how do you make yourself stop thinking?
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I don't know enough about your situation, EQwX2B, but sometimes people are not willing to be responsible about filing, even if they want out. I'm referring to your husband. I know you're still sitting on the fence about what to do, but YOU may need to be the one to do the filing, if you want to have peace of mind.
Sometimes "letting go and letting God" means being able to hear what we need to do, and being pro-active about it.
