Need mens advice--sex BONILLAK: I have a question for the men here regarding sex. I have a male friend..well he is more than a friend but not a boyfriend...ok so we sleep together and actually I thought we had an awesome sex thing going on but now I'm questioning myself. He told me that I hurt him the last time!! He said he isn't use to "doing it" 3 times in a row and that I rubbed him raw but it also felt great. How do I take that? Did I really hurt him? I kinda took it as a compliment.LMAO Would most men even admit a woman rubbed him raw?
Re: Need mens advice--sex dre: Not a guy, but mabey yall could go buy some lubrication.
Its not a good idea to not use condoms with guys that arent in a serious relationship with you. BIG NO NO!
Sorry not trying to lecture just you never know who else they are with and what you could get from them.
A condom should solve the problem.
Re: Need mens advice--sex BONILLAK: Not a guy, but mabey yall could go buy some lubrication
I know lubrication wasn't the issue...I think I was too demanding on him. I'm actually embarassed over the whole thing.
Re: Need mens advice--sex dre: Dont be embarrassed its a good thing to enjoy sex alot.
I know I do, depending on the guy Im with of course.
Just be safe, I had been careless in the past but Ive seen too many people get AIDS and other VDs to not be careful now.
Re: Need mens advice--sex BONILLAK: Oh I'm safe with him. I have known him for 6yrs, he has been with only 3 women and he has showed me test results as I did him. When he found out his wife was cheating he has gotten tested for different things this past year. I would never sleep with someone I wasn't super sure about. I watched my aunt die from aids and have a neighbor with it now and it is horrible. I do enjoy sex with him as I hated it most times with my husband so maybe I have gotten carried away with him because I enjoy it so much.lol