Okay he wants to play games ...... jade281: My husband is playing with my emotions. Just two days ago he said he wanted to come home and be a family again one day. Now he is saying that he doesn’t want to come home and how he wants to get a divorce. Well you know what I am fed up with him hurting me. I told him the address and number to the free legal aide people and told him to use it. I get tired of him yo-yoing with my emotions. I let him know that today was the last time I was going to let him hurt me again. I talked to a friend that just went through a separation with her husband. Luckily for her things worked out. She gave me a website to go on and meet new people in the area and chat. I have been on that site every since. I will find someone to help me get my mind off of him. I had so much fun just reading the profiles. Now instead of talking to him I will be online finding a new man to focus on. When he finds out that I am no longer interested in him he will probably change but as for now I am through with the emotional rollercoaster.
Re: Okay he wants to play games ...... JNA: I rode that emotional rollercoaster one time and it is no fun...
After riding it for months she then said you have no idea what you put me through
Well that statement was about as crazy as she is...Hard to explain
Playing with someones emotions will tear you down to where you will be a wreck...
I guess the thing that still amazes me the most is how someone can be 30+ and not know what they want from day to day
It is something I will never figure out and don't care too...
I think you will find the same
Stay Strong
JNA
You will find plenty of people who do know what they want
Find someone new and don't play anymore games
If he hasn't figured out what he wants yet then he may never...
Re: Okay he wants to play games ...... starzluv: My H did that to me. called me at 1:30 in the morning telling me he loved me and he wanted to come home and told me to "tell" him what to do. i told him i wanted him to come home, but i could not tell him what to do he had to make up his mind on his own. the next day nothing. he didn't bring up the call, he didn't try to talk to me about it, he never even said if he made up his mind or not. it's all a game to him i guess. i'm not playing his games. i told him how i felt, and what i want. if he wants to come home good if not i will some day get over it. but i will not listen to him tell me he wants to come home. i told him if he wants to come home just do it, don't tell me. actions speak louder then words.
Re: Okay he wants to play games ...... sadgirl951: My xh did that to me too.
Not only just w/ my emotions but w/ the divorce too.
Just recently, I told him: You know what. You wanted this so bad. You figure it out and finish it. I'm done. Just let me know the good news and that's when it's over.
So, more power to ya. Go find someone new who won't bs w/ your head.
Good luck out there!
Hope that helps.
LONA
