To the OTHER WOMAN (is this psycho?)
I just wanted to drop you a quick note to let you know how much pain, sadness and utter destruction your relationship with my husband has caused me…there is much I don’t know or understand about how you feel about him…but I just would hope that nothing like this would ever happen to you…it is devastating and I am not certain we can get through it…but please give us this chance to try. Please back away from him….please try to forget about him. Please don’t accept his calls if he calls…please no more happy hours or workouts, walks or drives…please be strong if he is weak… I am not mad or hateful towards you, I know you are not the married one that has fallen into the easy temptation of a spark with a coworker…it takes two. I just want to ask you to leave us alone to try to work things out. (And I am not insinuating that you are playing in active role in his life right now…but rather that if you are or have much interaction with him, you try to be respectful of our marriage.)
My marriage is my life…and I love him to death…
[Actually almost sent this today, but instead I sent this to my husband letting him know that I wanted to send it and was feeling horrible...(his response was, "Don't send it and we'll talk about it tonight. And I love you.") I feel like I am this unknown victim to her...does she know my pain? Am I some faceless victim. Do you think I should email it to her? Do you think it would help? It isn't psyco...it is really how I want her to know I feel. I also wanted to attach a picture of us on our wedding day!! :-* ">
Ahhh.
Bucker.
Re:To the OTHER WOMAN (is this psycho?) Spectrum: Ooooooohhhh BOY did I want to write a similar letter.
Oh, wait a minute, I DID! Except mine was more along the lines of "I'm going to gracefully back out of this thing, so have at it... but I wouldn't do it if I were you!!"
Of course, what I really wanted to write was more along the lines of:
"Hey, you psycho man-stealing c*nt with no self-esteem and extremely bad taste in both men and clothes... Just wanted to let you know that your love letters do indeed sound like a pathetic 16-year-old with emotional attachment issues, and as a side note, I really wouldn't recommend allowing people to take pictures of you in catholic school-girl outfits where your flabby waist is hanging out... And if I did, I really wouldn't give it to an idiot who is going to leave it in the living room in a suitcase for his wife to find. What's more, I would like to point out that both your spelling and grammar leave something to be desired- you DO have a college degree, don't you? What's that you say? It was in forestry and not writing? Well, that makes you the most well-educated piece of liberal white trash I've ever had the pleasure of catching in the sack with my husband. I must say, while you do have a flabby waist, at least you don't weigh quite as much as the last piece of sh*t wh*re he fooled around with (always assuming he hasn't cheated for the four years in between, but let's face it, the chances are slim). In any case, you have landed yourself a FINE little prize, so enjoy! But don't worry- you'll get yours. People with your exceptionally bad karma always do!"
heehehehe.....
Spectrum.
Re:To the OTHER WOMAN (is this psycho?) picadilly: Ouch.
Note to self... stay on 'Buckers & Spectrum's good sides.
Hey Starbucker, be brave, I know it's hard for me to understand what your going through, that is one rough ride your on. I want you to know that I'm behind you every step you take. But don't send that letter, to her it will seem like you're defeated & almost willing to throw in the towel so that she may go in for the kill.
Spectrum... flabby waist. hehe.
Re:To the OTHER WOMAN (is this psycho?) brynne: Hmmm,
Honestly, I wouldn't send it. Hopefully if made you feel better giving it to your H. I called my X's g/f that helped end our marriage & you know what ? I got a HORRIBLE response, I called telling her I wanted to let her know that he is ALREADY cheating on her (online personals, internet sex). But she was brainwashed by my X (b/c he was 10 years older than her). She was an absolute uneducated trashy excuse for a human. Had NO remorse ! It was disgusting & made me feel worse.
You may get a different reaction, but remember they WILL BE DEFENSIVE. No matter how polite you act.
Good luck,
Hope
Re:To the OTHER WOMAN (is this psycho?) brynne: WELL PUT SPECTRUM !!
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