Strange or wonderful dream?

Strange or wonderful dream? EssieDotCom: I had this nightmare like dream... that my grandpa in law convienced my husband to go to a military ball with another woman. I was pissed b/c he would never take me to any of them, wtf would he take a complete stranger. turns out she was someone he knew from high school, anyway they were dancing and she told him she'd been in love with him. He look her square in the eye and said "I'm married and very much in love with my wife."  in the last part of the dream he was getting out of someones mini van at his grandpas house and i was standing there waiting for him. He was wearing a tux. I remember wanting to wrap my arms around him and squeeze, almost like i was wanting to hold on for dear life... ready to cry. What does this dream mean? i know it's just a dream. but i have this un-dieing desire to know that my husband is true is wanting to work things out with me and just isn't playing another mind game with me. I do love  him, I'm scared of things becoming what they were again.... like a scared little kid I guess  :'(  I need a hug  :'(
Re: Strange or wonderful dream? thehitekrednek: (((((((((((HUGS))))))))))

I have a whole sh!t load of hugs, so just ask, anytime. Be careful, EQwidow, don't let the desire cloud the thinking. I still haven't figured out why any man in his right mind, would rather play video games, than spend time with a beautiful woman such as yourself.
If you really are going to work this out, make sure he is in it 100%. I could scare you with my story, but I would rather not be negative here.
Don't settle, please, if it truly what you want and he is putting in the effort, it will be worth the struggle. Just don't struggle for nothing.

((((((((((HUGS))))))))) Another one just for good luck!

Spike
Re: Strange or wonderful dream? EssieDotCom: aww ty :)  Yeah i know i've been leary of words, I really need to "See" that things r going to change b4 I can make a judgement call. A lot has been said, and the way of communication has changed. But it took the man almost 7 months to realize "Whoa I FUged up!"  And now in May he's leaveing for 6 months out on the ship and for some reason he seems to think that 6 more months of us in this new "Communication" level we're on now will do us some good. but to be honest with you I can't hold on for 6 more months if I don't know that his efforts are true. 
Re: Strange or wonderful dream? Freckles: I have Strange Dreams all the time.
:)

I hope you can work it out and ya'll can get back together.

If So , If I were you i would have *1* Number one thing.

No Video Games in Your Marrage.

None
(You can have Pong and thats IT !
(And it has to be Two Player ONLY)

Tell him That.
:)
Re: Strange or wonderful dream? sheeps: I'm thinking that ANY dream that begins with a "Grandpa-in-law" can't get anything but better from there, regardless of what happens in the rest of the "nightmare".

-R