she's found someone already

she's found someone already toofreshtothinkright: well, i just found out she's with someone else.  I even told my friend that she was going to be dating this guy after a bit, but I never thought it would be this soon.  It really makes me wonder what was going on that I didn't see?  I mean, I know the guy - he is her massage therapist. It kills me to say this, but he is a great guy and I know he is going to treat her right because that is the type of guy he is...He works with her at the gym we all used to go to....There is no way I can ever go back there...I am now not sure if she lied to me when she said there was no one else......

That was the last nail my coffin.  I've hit the bottom and am not liking the things going trhough my mind...I am quite scared really. 

Any of you that have advice, I need it now..........please.
Re: she's found someone already cab1000: Just know that you are not alone.  I am going thru the same thing.  Be prepared to skip all your meals.  Be prepared to think of nothing but your situation.  Be prepared to miss her like crazy.  Be prepared to picture them together all the time.  Be prepared to cry. 

I am too

Re: she's found someone already twine: wow i hate this, my stbxw moved on as well, it did bother me at first but then i had a few thoughts....
1. Now the hedache is his
2. He will never father kids with her and I did
3. He is the one listening to her bitch about me....not me anymore
4. i once heard if a man steals your wife u should thank him because if she left she wasn't worth it anyway.
Re: she's found someone already toofreshtothinkright: I truly wish that I could say that....she as noting but golden to me Twine.  She never bitched or gav eme any headaches.....not one.  THis is regretfully 100% my loss.

Re: she's found someone already mgniko: So I'm not going thru it yet, but soon will as my wife & I split.  Even now it's hard to imagine her in bed with someone else, but it will happen some day.  The point that I'm trying to keep in mind (since this split is somewhat mutual) is that I wish her nothing but a happy future.  I'm sorry it wasn't with me, but I do want her to be happy regardless.  If yours was still a good person but just not for you, then bless her and wish her the best of luck finding someone that she can live her life with and be satisfied.