Re: Getting over it
Getting over it shygirl2006: Looking for ideas on how to get over nervousness and shyness.
I am a pretty outgoing gal. I don't say I am shy or a nervous type. However, once in awhile a man that I find really attractive can make me a mess. I get nervous. The racing heart, stuttering, and the wanting to approach but can't do it because I am too nervous. If he approaches me I am okay. I don't stutter, I just stutter if he is around and I am talking to other people. I still get a racing heart and shakey.
It makes me seem so unapproachable. I hate it. At times I see him and I get all freaked out and take off.
I can tell he gets nervous around me too. I use to wonder if the liking was one sided but it is obvious it is on both sides. I see him as being a lot like me. He is shy around me too.
Sure it is easy to say if he likes me he would ask me out, but I don't agree with that. I think eventually it will happen. everyone around us can see the attraction on both sides. He seems obviously shy himself and probably doing the same thing I am, checking it all out.
My main hang up is getting over this crush feeling. I need ideas how to calm myself down!
I am starting to think I might as well joke about it and flat out tell him next time we are in a conversation that he makes me nervous and when he wants me to elaborate tell him it is because I am attracted to him.
I just don't want to be the one to be up front as we work together, just not in the same area and I don't want to make an ass of myself. lol I just think it would be much easier if I wasn't such a wreck with it.
Re: Getting over it shygirl2006: Same building two different jobs and not employed by the same place. The most I would see him is in passing. If it was more then that there would be no way!