Re: bad day again

Re: bad day again ginj111: I'm there too and its killin me, I cant escape constant thoughts of her, and now its so hot and sunny here in uk, all i think of is things we used to do on days out etc. the sick empty feeling is as strong now as it was 4 months ago and to top it off I saw here yesterday with her mate at the gym, we had a brief chat, pointless pleasantries - but I just wanted to hold her & cuddle her, it all came flooding back - but she obvioulsy doesnt think the same.
THere's nothing I can do, even stuff I did before without her just doesnt feel the same, the 'edge' has been taken off any enjoyment I might have, coz this sad empty feelin is ALWAYS there.....
just wish there was someway to step out of/switch off this never- ending sadness.....
Re: bad day again broken_saint: i don't think there will ever be an easy way to deal with it. time is all i have right now, it's what i'm depending on to help me deal 'n heal. there's times where i forget her completely, but when it comes back, hell ... it hits hard. i can't believe that its actually come down to this. you would never think that the one's we thought we knew so well could just put you so far behind them that it's almost like you just never existed. in my case, it feels like i never existed to her. but when i was with her we were both so alive.  sucks how things turn out in the end.
 Re: bad day again superwife: I had a dream that he tried to kill me...I'm not kidding...  he was shooting at mefrom outside, I was upstairs (I live on the first floor).  WTF does that mean?  And we've been apart 14 months...

broken- it will get worse before it gets better, most likely.  Then it will get better, then there will be a bad day thrown in there  :-[, then lots of good days  :).  Then a bad one (you get the point).  The key is, how you deal with it.  And you will learn to deal with it.  You have to.  She's likely not going to change, so yu gotta roll with the punches.  You can't wait for her to come to her senses.  And if she eventually does...bonus for you

And that's what we're here for...


here's a little something for you...

Where is the moment when we need it the most
You kick up the leaves and the magic is lost
They tell me your blue sky's faded to grey
They tell me your passion's gone away
And I don't need no carrying on

You stand in the line just to hit a new low
You're faking a smile with the coffee to go
You tell me your life's been way off line
You're falling to pieces every time
And I don't need no carrying on

Cause you had a bad day
You're taking one down
You sing a sad song just to turn it around
You say you don't know
You tell me don't lie
You work at a smile and you go for a ride
You had a bad day
The camera don't lie
You're coming back down and you really don't mind
You had a bad day
You had a bad day

Well you need a blue sky holiday
The point is they laugh at what you say
And I don't need no carrying on

You had a bad day
You're taking one down
You sing a sad song just to turn it around
You say you don't know
You tell me don't lie
You work at a smile and you go for a ride
You had a bad day
The camera don't lie
You're coming back down and you really don't mind
You had a bad day
You had a bad day

Sometimes the system goes on the blink and the whole thing it turns out
Wrong
You might not make it back and you know that you could be well oh that
Strong
Well I'm not wrong

So where is the passion when you need it the most
Oh you and I
You kick up the leaves and the magic is lost

Cause you had a bad day
You're taking one down
You sing a sad song just to turn it around
You say you don't know
You tell me don't lie
You work at a smile and you go for a ride
You had a bad day
You see what you like
And how does it feel, one more time
You had a bad day
You had a bad day
You had a bad day




 bad day again broken_saint: its's been 3 months and no contact. last night i had another dream of her. woke up and again i hit bottom. i'm still having bad and horrible days. i fu@king miss her so much.
 Re: bad day again Goddess: broken-

((HUGS)) I wish I had some wise words of comfort to give you..but I dont..I just know that what you are feeling must be horribly painful.. :-\

I do know that 3 months is still a relatively short time.. and it looks as if you just took a nasty dip on the separation roller coaster..It will go back up again.. I promise.. but in the meantime.. just take a deep breath and take care of yourself.. You are still in the grieving process.. the only way to get past it is to move through it..ya know?

Im sorry I dont have something more comforting to say.. I do know that the bad days wont last forever.

Wishing you healing on this journey-

Goddess