Why do I still feel like I have to be nice? pisces_goddess: ::) Had a week from hell with the ex.. Arguments, his name calling, me crying, him saying I destroy peoples lives, finding out he & my first ex are now in cahoots, (the guy he HATED b/c he never saw the kids, didnt pay child support etc..) Anyway, he takes the kids for an overnight yesterday & I think alright Regina, just try being civil & I find myself falling all over myself to be nice, when all he can do is comment on "how sexually frustrated I make him with my new rack" GOOD GRIEF.. then he drops the kids off & I give him a muffin to take to work for breakfast.. DId someone kidnap me in the middle of the night? Why am I being an ounce nice to this jerk? Yes I left, I was the leaver, but it took YEARS and tons of abuse to get out...I dont love him, I dont like him, but the "caretaker" in me still wants to fix things for everyone else so they can be okay with my decision to be happy.. WTF??? I dont know where Im going with this other than beating myself up & not understanding WHY I would feel the need to be nice to someone that calls me an F***ing C**t at least once a week... ::) ::) ::) ::) ::) ::)
Re: Why do I still feel like I have to be nice? atd74: Ugh! Pisces... I can't believe him. WTF is it with him and your rack?
Let him get his own damn muffins! I think it's time for me to clean out the trunk of the caddy and drive down there... Seriously. You don't need this shi* and you certainly shouldn't feel obligated to take care of this as****!
Next time you get the urge to make give him muffin for breakfast put some exlax in it.
Re: Why do I still feel like I have to be nice? pisces_goddess: ROTFLMAO.. Atd you made my day!
The deal with him & my rack & the rest of me too ..is ..he cant have it! All I ever was to him was .. well.. basically a trophy wife & piece of a**..thats not me dogging myself thats just the truth.
I didnt bake him the muffin.. I had bought it.. but wanted to be nice.. *smacking myself in the head* I plead temporary insanity!!
Funny about you & the caddy ..I was telling JMN last night that I have my bf's caddy for the week and its parked right in my driveway.. hmm...any ideas??? :-X :-X I bet him & BB's ex could fit real nice..... THe pigs!!!!!
Re: Why do I still feel like I have to be nice? atd74: Glad I cheered you up. ;D
You know, it would be worth it to make those muffins yourself just so you could lace em up! I can think of a few other things I'd be tempted to put in those muffins... something that would make him turn a little blue would be nice.
They always want what they can't have - ugh - you are so right.
I can think of lots of things we can do with your ex and that caddy - they're not very legal but it would definitely get him out of your hair! ;D Ok. We must stop this now because I could get myself in some real trouble here...
Re: Why do I still feel like I have to be nice? pisces_goddess: Trouble? Surely they know we are not serious! ;)
We all know my ex deserves the caddy treatment.. I still go way back to what the guys said.. about tying him up.. gettin him hot & bothered.. and then lettin them drop him off naked at the nearest gay bar!!! Nothing illegal about that.. except for maybe stuffing him in the trunk, naked, doped up on muffins... LMAO..
Thanks again..
