X tried to hire a man to kill me

X tried to hire a man to kill me angelfaceh: I was married 21 yrs. The last year of marriage X tried to hire a biker to kill me when he was in jail for abuse. I found out after we seperated and filed for divorce. During the 10th yr. of marriage I became chronically ill. X did not take care of me. My daugther did and my dad paid for doctors,operation,and gave me $600,000.00 so I would me set for life. I kept giving X the $$ for his business so he could end up doing good and take care of me. Well,once the money was gone,so was he. I live 150% below poverty now. And if it wasn't for my daugther I would be living in the getto. My older daugther is like her dad and doesn't help. I lost my dream home in the woods,I lost my 2 dogs of 10 yrs. allmy friends,moved across country for my safety,had heart failure a year after divorce. Been divorce 3 yrs now and still mourning all my losses.How can a person who you have been married to for a lifetime just throw you to the gutters like he did me. I hear he is wealthy now in his business....the business that would not of happened without my and my family. It makes me sick!!
I want to get past this. Counseling hasn't helped. I just feel so upset.
Re: X tried to hire a man to kill me Feel: How the hell or why the hell didn't you ever leave before.

OMG, so you are telling me he still isn't in jail?
Re: X tried to hire a man to kill me broken_saint: angelfaceh,

i'm sorry for your pain and all that you've been through but you have to keep telling yourself that this is not your fault. sometimes the people we love just change and sometimes they change for all the worse. it's not because of you or who you are. it's because they don't know any better. karma will find him and he will have to pay for what he's done. hang in there hun.
Re: X tried to hire a man to kill me Annie: First, I'm sorry you are going through this. Hope it'll get better for you.

Emotions aside, Hire a lawyer, divorse him (if you haven't) and demand your part. If you are already divorsed, hire a lawyer anyway and demand your money back. You threw your inherritance into this pit, you have to get some out of it.
Do you have proof he tried to kill you? Bring it up with police or in court. You can't just hide, feel sorry for yourself and be scared of him, waiting for his next attempt.
Re: X tried to hire a man to kill me worchid76: There is a saying in my country that say's "Hell does not really exist, people create it for themself by doing wrong to others. Because what you do here you end up paying in life"

What goes around comes around and someday you will hear the opposite. He is NOT doing well. Or someone else he tried to kill off got to him first or something.

Just take care of yourself and never look back or retrace your steps, always forwards ;)