To my Wife 7 JoshuaB: What you and your family did to me was inexcusable, disrespectful, and just plain rotten. I could not get a word in that whole time. And when I tried everybody got all huffy. Of course you did nothing wrong because I was the bad guy. You know the funny thing about that whole situation… is that nobody at all including counselors and other impartial parties found what I said to your mother was wrong. On the other hand all the same parties said that what you all did was atrocious. Now WHY was this situation so important. Well because you left without any warning and then invited me over to “talk” about it. Till then I had no idea of 1) how unhappy you were and 2) what issues needed to be addressed. That situation was SO very important because we were at a fork in the road to talk about, discuss, at least understand the problems OR not do all of those things. It turns out that the both roads had bridges, you crossed yours and then you and your family burned it. Thanks. And what makes it all the more worse is that what started it all was a girl that you hate, you trusted someone you hate, your family let someone that they don’t like that much, who disrespects them constantly, who your own brother doesn’t like being around not only get into our business but pretty much influence a great majority of their decisions and yours as well. Well how about down the road will Gail be the guy that is trying to get into your pants or the office worker who has a bad relationship but dishes out “sound” advice, or could it be whomever.
