He Lost Me

He Lost Me Fjord Girl: A very good friend of mine replied to one of my posts at Divorce Care and Support.

Bea,

Congratulations on your soon to be divorce. It's not about winning, it's about finishing the game in one piece.

Having said that, he came in second... He lost You.

R.


That is one of the nicest things I've heard in a while. Now I'm going to get ready to meet with my lawyer at 3:30 and get this divorce thing over and  done. Today I take another step towards my freedom. Closure, I need closure. Heaven help me...
Re: He Lost Me ctrlaltdelete: Closure is priceless. I will pray that everything goes smoothly for you. Your friend was absolutely right so don't doubt her for a minute. That positive attitude will carry you far.
Re: He Lost Me ATLfoodie: Good luck to you.
Re: He Lost Me Fjord Girl: Thanks, Just and ATL.

To say that I'm scared shitless would be the understatement of the month. I feel like crying like a little girl and I can't stop it. I'm sure I'll have a long conversation with my mother on the phone tonight... A very long one because I will need all the words of encouragement she tells me to make me feel better.

Right now I wish I weren't so far away from my family... I could use a hug... a thousand hugs. Or someone to hold my hand while I cross the door at the lawyer's office. But once again life puts me in a situation where I have to face things all alone and prove myself I'm stronger than I give myself credit for.
Re: He Lost Me thehitekrednek: 1000x (((((((((((((((((BEA))))))))))))))))) x1000