Guys Being Approached By Women?
Do guys like being approached by Women? Or does that depend on if he finds her attractive?
Anyways, seems some are so at ease to go up to one and chat up with one they find attractive.
I am an extremely outgoing person to people I like as people but am not attracted to at all.
When I see a guy I am highly attracted to I revert to shy school girl. HELP! If a woman approached you that you didn't know how would you react? What would be the best way she could approach you especially when well you don't know each other at all?
I read the post on the intimidating of beautiful women. I have been told that I am a pretty attractive woman. Many say they don't know why I am single.
I need some pointers guys. What are the best things women did or said to you? What can a girl do to approach you that would be a turn on(I mean turn on not hard on) hehe. Anyways hopefully that makes sense.
I am at a point in my life I enjoy being single, but don't want a moment to pass me by due to my shyness so help guys and thanks so much for advice soon to come my way!
Oh also if you have a success story of approaching one you don't know, guys and girls would love to hear it! Might help!
Re: Guys Being Approached By Women? spooky: Approach me and I'll let you know what I thought. ;) Having never been approached before I can only guess really, but how do you act towards people you're not interested in? Do they seem bothered at all? Try to come across the same way for the most part. If you just say something like "look, I hope I don't sound too forward here, but you seem like a nice guy. Maybe we could talk somewhere sometime?" I doubt a reasonable guy would be bothered. At least I wouldn't; but maybe I'm not as easily offput.
Re: Guys Being Approached By Women? Macaw_Lover: Thanks for your post.
Question how could I really say to one "You seem like a nice guy" when those would be my first words to him. I mean when approaching one you don't know, all you know is you are attracted to him. You want to talk to him to FIND out if he is a nice guy or not.
I'm completely outgoing with friends or ones I am just not physically attracted to. But I go into a shell when I see well a goergous man I want to hopefully get to know.
Re: Guys Being Approached By Women? spooky: Oh, sorry. I guess I put a little of my own thinking in there. I try to start some small talk first to make myself more comfortable. Well just walk up and say "did it hurt?" or "nice shoes..." :D Actually that might work, some guys like chicks who are bold. :D
Re: Guys Being Approached By Women? Steven: Hello. Is the way I have always met women. I have read that most beautiful women don't even get talked to, guys are scared. So, being said that if you see a guy you are attracted to say "HELLO". I feel that word in itself is an icebreaker, you just have to do it.
