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how chum: it's been a week and a half since we split up after almost 13 years and he is having a relationship with a 16 year old girl he is 26 how flipping sick is that.. we have a 9 years old daughter and 6 year old son...how can people move on so fast after such a long relationship...i love him to death but i hate at the same time.  he says he still loves me but HOW can that be when he is tearing my heart out?
Re: how So_Lost: Send the perv to jail.  Get proof, and call the cops.
Re: how td7629: Hi Chum.. Welcome.. I am so sorry that you are going through this.  I know that feeling of trying to understand how the person who you thought was your best friend could do such an awful thing to you and your family.  I am not quite sure how they can move on with their lives so soon (mine did also), I guess they just don't care or have no conscience.  Hang in there and keep posting on here. It really does help. ((Hugs))

PS.. Isn't that relationship he is in illegal??
Re: how Spike: Ok, now everyone will understand if I stay out of this one. Everyone, my oldest daughter, Chum, welcome to Ojar, baby.
Re: how chum: not sure of exactly the extent of the relationship and don't really wanna know right now