Guys - can you answer this one for us....
If a man has no trouble getting "excited" why would he having trouble maintaining "excitement" during the act?
Is it arousal, lost attraction, mechanics - position, too much beer, guilt etc...
The Viagra ads never talks about losing it - only getting it??
What are your answers?
6 inquiring women want to know!!!
Blu
Re: Guys - can you answer this one for us.... ajw: Yeah well we cant get him a hooker now.......he'll think his "white picket fence" idea has worked
Re: Guys - can you answer this one for us.... So_Lost: [quote author=ajw link=topic=33574.msg348820#msg348820 date=1156528587">
Yeah well we cant get him a hooker now.......he'll think his "white picket fence" idea has worked
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Geez you guys can really Hijack!
Re: Guys - can you answer this one for us.... Whirlpool: It has happened to me. Maintaining that thing is just as much mental as physical, anything can happen. For me it has only happened while receiving oral, I think because since I am just there doing nothing it gives my mind a chance to wander lol. If you having an distractions at all like stress, pending projects, and anxiety about anything coming up, when you are personally not "busy" those things can creep in your head. Saying that, it only takes a few seconds of focus to get back in the action again lol. If I am the one taking care of business this is never a problem because my focus is on what I am doing;)
Now when drunk that is another story, I have been so drunk before I could not even finish lol.
Re: Guys - can you answer this one for us.... Spike: I agree with WP, it is as much mental as physical. Alcohol plays a part, it's like a fine balance, when everything is right, it's the energizer bunny. If one thing goes out of balance it all goes for a sh*t. Lately, if I get any indication of the ex, it drops. Could be a song playing in the background, something she says, something she does, or I do. It really sux, because that means she still has control, to an extent. Mood is everything, scent for me is huge. I probably just confused you more, then I helped. BTW, age is a factor too, smoking, and diet.
