He's Not Mine

He's Not Mine mariher: So I talked to G today and he told me that he's going to try working things out with his wife. I told him that I was happy for him and it's important that he does what makes him happy. I wished him all the luck in the world. I even told him that hopefully they can learn from their mistakes and live a better life together. All the while I'm dying inside and I want to scream my hurt, my frustration, tell him how much I care about him, but he'll never hear me say those words to him because he's not mine. He never was. I want to move on from this and live my life. But I feel so sad. So down!!!
I want him to get a divorce, get over her, call me and tell me he wants me to be with him and wisk me away. That's make-believe.
Re: He's Not Mine chaotic: At least some good comes from it.... You may have helped save his marriage.

Not great for you, but it is one marriage that did not end up being a statistic.
Re: He's Not Mine mariher: The most fucked up thing about the whole situation though is that I have a very strong feeling that things are gonna mess up for him again and he's gonna end up leaving her again. They've both done this throughout their whole marriage. He keeps giving her chances and she's giving him chances. Whatever, it's none of my business. Let them make each other miserable. I don't want any part in that. It still hurts though.
Re: He's Not Mine yella: The best thing you could have done was break this off, and run away from it. I mean that on so many different levels.

This is something your heart, mind, and most of all, dignity don't need. Trust me, I know this hurts now, but later on down the road, this really will pay off.

Just have faith.  ;)
Re: He's Not Mine chaotic: [quote author=mariher link=topic=34008.msg353048#msg353048 date=1157056840">
The most f-cked up thing about the whole situation though is that I have a very strong feeling that things are gonna mess up for him again and he's gonna end up leaving her again. They've both done this throughout their whole marriage. He keeps giving her chances and she's giving him chances. Whatever, it's none of my business. Let them make each other miserable. I don't want any part in that. It still hurts though.
[/quote">

Think of it this way.  If this is the type of relationship he is used to (both giving and recieving grief), what part of that would you want in your life.  The last thing you need is some guy making you miserable then asking for anther chance.