Re: Do they all come back one day?
Kinn - For me, it's important to know - Did she have an affair? Was there another man to make it more difficult to come back to you?
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Actually no. Apparently she was just unhappy. Actually we both were i just did't want to admit it at the time. In the time we were apart I was the only one of us to actually have semi serious relations with anyone as far as I know. She couldn't handle that. I think she still loved me but our marriage just wasn't good. She was actually very cold to me until she found out I was moving on. Only then did she show any interest in me. It is a good think I think. Even though I went through hell like eveyone else that this happens too it made us change as people. It woke us up from the traps and bad habits we had fallen into. We both got so comfortable we didn't even try anymore. This just showed both of us that you have to keep trying to make each other happy forever because anything can happen.
Re: Do they all come back one day? abandoned1: Chaos40 and CurlyGirl - My STBXW is still saying the same thing about it having nothing to do with OM. Does she think I'm F*cking stupid??? She must because she swears even though I have lots of evidence to the contrary. Incredible. Oh, I hope she does try to come back 8)
Re: Do they all come back one day? CDNgurl: [quote author=chaos40 link=topic=34542.msg361338#msg361338 date=1158171311">
Don't you just love it when they say they didn't leave you for the other person? Mine says the same thing about the OM. He just happened to be there a few weeks before she left, talking on the cell phone for 1000+ hrs, just happened to be planning a meeting in a hotel with money paid for by my credit card, just happened to be planning a trip to Aruba together 2 weeks after she left and the list goes on and on and on. Now based on that where in the world would I have gotten the silly idea that she left me for him?
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Silly for sure! lol. Mine just happened to take her out for lunch three times the week of my birthday (including my birthday!), a month before he left... silly me - "that could have been Dave". un-hunh. It COULD have... but it wasn't was it? ::)
Re: Do they all come back one day? chaos40: curlygirl,
Don't you just love it when they say they didn't leave you for the other person? Mine says the same thing about the OM. He just happened to be there a few weeks before she left, talking on the cell phone for 1000+ hrs, just happened to be planning a meeting in a hotel with money paid for by my credit card, just happened to be planning a trip to Aruba together 2 weeks after she left and the list goes on and on and on. Now based on that where in the world would I have gotten the silly idea that she left me for him?
Re: Do they all come back one day? saddad: [quote"> He's still with the fugly he "didn't leave me for". [/quote">
[quote"> they've been together ever since, but still he didn't leave me for her and she doesn't date married men.
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You guys are cracking me up. Sadly, I'm getting the same story. She's been with OM since late May, yet didn't drop the bomb on me until August. After some snooping I discovered the OM two weeks later. Yet, she's still making it very clear to her friends, her family, my family, and me, that the divorce isn't about the OM. ::)
I know that the odds say her new relationship won't last, but that doesn't make me feel any better. I could never take her back, so if the day does come, it would just make me more sad. :'(
