What to do? I really need advice

What to do? I really need advice lusciouslips30: Hi Guys, I really need some advice on this one.  My youngest child is turning 3 years on DEcember 3rd, and her aunt by my exboyfriend's side called me up and told me she will be keeping a party for her.  Well she asked me to organise some invitations for her and to invite her classmates and as well as my relatives.  The problem is she is hosting the party at her house which is right next door to my ex's new woman who is also her friend, and am undecided as to whether I should attend, cause I just feel as if the ex and his new woman will be there, and if that happens I will feel terrible on my daughter's special day.  Please guys am really looking forward to some real honest responses, even if the truth will hurt me.  Am open to criticism.
Re: What to do? I really need advice sheydp: Have you asked her if they will be there, or welcome there?  I think if she is close enough to you to offer a party and all that, she might be willing to discuss this with you? 

If you have lots of "your" people at the party, would you be able to just avoid them enough to not have it ruined for you?  You could just not look them in the face, pay attention to your daughter?

Shey
Re: What to do? I really need advice idocsteve: Good advice by Sheyd, I was going to the same thing.

Find out if they plan to be there instead of 2nd guessing everything. If they will not be there, then problem solved.

If they will be there, then it may be an opportunity to learn to deal with a situation that is bound to occur over and over again. Just deal with the fact that there will be events that will force you to be in the same proximity to each other, and just go with it.