I really need help with this
Re: I've been a fool tryingtosmile: Don't beat yourself up for something that you had no idea about! It is not your fault that your wife chose not to share that painful event in her life with you. It is really sad though that that happened to her. :'(
She probably is dealing with issues that stem from that incident and she will continue to have these issues until she can seek counseling. If you feel like you can, I would encourage talking to her about the paper that you found. Maybe she will open up to you and share her story. If she chooses not to, however, there is not much you can do but hope that she will seek the help that she needs. Please don't blame yourself for something that is out of your control.
