Ready to play? cloud:
Ready to play...the game is what is the worst thing your ex did to you. And no, you can't say that she cheated on you because that is way to obvious and easy (as is your ex if she cheated on you--easy, I mean).
I'll start with a relatively minor one so somebody can top it.
My ex would not let me decorate the Xmas tree--ever. She always had to do it so it looked exactly the way she wanted it--like something from a Martha Stewart magazine. I simply brought the ornaments and stuff down from the attic and she did the tree. As a kid, I love decorating it and it wasn't about having the perfect-decorated tree. It was about doing stuff together and enjoying the time together. So that's mine.
Re:Ready to play? cloud: Frideon,
You need to start off with one that barely tops mine--not one that blows it out of the water (just kidding).
I can see where those two would come to mind fairly easy for you.
Re:Ready to play? Kinney26: In the earlier days wen we would argue I used to be able to remain very calm and low key. She was a yeller from day one. She also was a name caller. The fact that I didn't get pissed and start yelling back made her even more mad. Unfortunately after a while I became a yeller too. Of course one of the reasons for her leaving was the arguing. She turned me into that.
Then there is the fact that she told me she told me she was going to leave two months after our wedding and once a year after that until she finally really left. One of her biggest reasons for leaving was my insecurity. Gee I wonder if she had anything to do with that.
I put down a couple because I need to get to bed.
Re:Ready to play? Kinney26: Oh yea. A few week before she left we got into a big fight. her sister came over the next morning and my ex was still pissed. I don't remember what I said, but right in front of her sister she yells, What have you ever done for me? I was floored, I said, I've been doing sh*t for you for 7 years.
I can't beat the vasectomy.
Most of our stuff had to do with over the top arguing and saying mean things in the heat of the moment. She could really be a supreme bit*h.
Re:Ready to play? Rose: I should have known there would be problems when he picked a fight with me on the night he asked me to marry him. I finally called it quits when in two weeks he gambled $3000 at a local casino with money I had just gotten from changing jobs and cashing in my IRA. I let him walk all over me too many times to mention but when his drugs started coming into the home with our children and his gambling became an addiction he wouldn't admit I said no more. Hate him because he is a player and still plays on my sympathy.
