Finally Got Smart bettyboop: I finally woke up about the men that I was seeing off and on for two years and I'm so proud of myself. It's pretty sad when you tell the man that you have changed and that you don't want the relationship any more and he don't get the clue. I feel so free now and happy. He acted like a two year old because he didn't get his way, just like always did. I have to tell chrisjane that she was right about him. I'm not sad about the break up which is unsual for me but I know I will be ok because the right one will come around. I hate the dating scene because I'm tend to be shy, anybody got any suggestions on the dating scene because I have never really don't it before. ;D
Re:Finally Got Smart ChrisJane: Hang in there. Believe me I've had my share of ROTTEN APPLES. I've learned the warning signs.
I had given up on thoughts of a good man out there and then here under my nose was a wonderful guy that had been offering me advice and support for close to a year. Not looking may be the answer, it'll just happen.
Re:Finally Got Smart bettyboop: Thank you Chrisjane, I need those words of incouragement. It's hard to hang in there when this man don't get the hint that it is over. Just because I do love him and care some people just aren't ment to be. I have grown so much and I finally like who I am. :D
Re:Finally Got Smart in_search_of: CJ with all her wiseness! Quit looking and you will find it, the question is how to quit looking. I haven't mastered that one yet, I always look..."who could be the next victim" lol...who knows, perhaps that is a step in being comfortable with learning to be me, learning to quit looking...
Re:Finally Got Smart bettyboop: I agree with you on that one. I would like to stop looking but it's easy said then done. I guess I just think it's so unfair that my ex is remarried and the sucky part is to the one who he cheated with on me with. So I have to deal with that every day of my life. :P
