Nightmares? LettinGo: Does anyone else have nightmares about this, or really sad dreams?
Last night I had two ... in one, STBX was hanging out with a group of male friends (all people I have never seen before, none that I know IRL, actually one was a rap star - lmbo!). He was treating me soooo awful. At one point, two or three of his friends were chasing me around this huge parking lot trying to SHOOT me! Then they felt bad and said they weren't going to kill me. STBX was leaving with them all, and was leaving me behind. I was crying asking for a ride home because I was pregnant (yikes) and had no way to get home, and he just left me there. Later he called to tell me he was going to give me money to get an abortion.
In another dream, we were back in highschool (I am 27, and we didn't go to the same high school) and OW transferred there. My SIL, who right now IRL hates the OW, became friends with her!
These are really stupid dreams ... the first one was strange because STBX has never ever shown any violent tendencies towards me, and he is totally against abortion too ... so that made no sense to me.
Does anyone else have these wacky or just sad dreams?
Kelly
Re:Nightmares? amess: LG, there is another thread like this, that adresses this "issue", but a lot do. The loss and rejection dreams. Mine involve trying to find someone and not suceeding, or rejection. Except mine not only involve my stbx, but other ex's as well. Hate them. Makes me wake up crying. One time I actually woke up screaming the freaks name. Last night I actually had one with my stbx in it, and we were doing everyday married things. I didn't feel sad when I woke up, though. Settlement disputes will do that to a person. ;) However, I know that these dreams are unsettling, good news is that they do tend to become infrequent.
Re:Nightmares? SugarSweet: LG,
I don't dream very often (at least not that I can remember) But more and more as time goes on I have been having scary dreams too. Once a month or so.
I think the weirdest one (it sounds so stupid to type it out) was where I was travelling with my best friend over seas, and I suddenly realized that I was dead. But still walking and talking. I had to get home fast so that I could say Bye to all those important to me in my life.
When I got home everyone was there, and would not believe that I was dead (I was walking and talking :-\)... I was frustrated. Screaming that they had to believe me so that I could go on. I needed everyone to say things to me, and say things to them. Finally to shut me up, b/c I was frantic and screaming, they said "Fine then you are dead" and I drifted off holding my sons hand.
I have no idea what it all means... if anything at all. But the one thing I did notice... was that when all those that mattered to me showed up... my ex was not there, and I didn't seem to notice. Maybe that was the whole point...
Now that everyone thinks I am a nut... :P I won't tell my most recent dream... lol.
K~
Re:Nightmares? recentlydiscarded: I had a dream last night that the s2bx was going around telling everyone (including our families) that he was ending our marriage because I was cheating on him. Of course I was the most faithful devoted wife ever. Needless to say I have some anger issues today.
Re:Nightmares? jason_stl: Kind of a bump to an old post, but I sort of new this was going to happen. Beginning the stages of actually falling for someone again and what happens? I dream about the ex.
It was different this time, because there were no feelings involved, but I was having great sex with her. Up until the point in time where she told me the bed we were on was in the house owned by the drug addict who used to beat her. Pulled out, got dressed and left. Woke up after that, shook the dream off and fell back asleep until the alarm went off.
That was odd, but just goes to show you that the dreams affect you less and less as time goes on.
