can't stop crying

can't stop crying mphs: All of these questions keeps coming into my head. I just want to figure out why someone can just giive up and leave your marriage. I love him so much. He came to get his things yesterday. I thought it would make me feel better, it just makes me feel worse. I miss him I don't want to think of all of the bad things he did or how he made me feel I just want him back. In my head I know what is best for me but I feel like I'm dying inside. The pain I felt when I was with him never hurt this bad. Last week I was so sure of myself and thought I knew what was best for me now I can't see night from day. Now I just want to hug him. I miss cuddling with him in the morning and telling him about my day. Every song on the radio makes me miss him even more. He gave me no reason for leaving other then he had, had enough. Of what I don't understand. I gave him to much love support, cleaned cooked worked and was always telling him and showing him how much he meant to me and now After 4 years he said he was done. He has given me no option. My heart feels like it is being ripped out of my chest. I feel so alone, I JUST WANT MY HUSBAND BACK. Please help. Is this ever going to get better. Will he ever realize no one will ever love or support him more then I DO. He has been my life. How are my supposed to live now. I just don't feel like I can go on another day.
Re:can't stop crying ukchap: I'm in that sort of situation too !

I HURT EVERY SECOND OF EVERY DAY ...
and when I do have to see my Wife she seems happy and positive about her new life - almost like she is now another person - it freaks me out ! but I do know something - it's always those that love the most truely that get hurt this way .
Re:can't stop crying ukchap: I'm in that sort of situation too !

I HURT EVERY SECOND OF EVERY DAY ...
and when I do have to see my Wife she seems happy and positive about her new life - almost like she is now another person - it freaks me out ! but I do know something - it's always those that love the most truely that get hurt this way .
Re:can't stop crying ukchap: I'm in that sort of situation too !

I HURT EVERY SECOND OF EVERY DAY ...
and when I do have to see my Wife she seems happy and positive about her new life - almost like she is now another person - it freaks me out ! but I do know something - it's always those that love the most truely that get hurt this way .
Re:can't stop crying feelindown: WOW, I’m in that same situation also, my wife just packed up all her stuff, had her friends, family and their husbands, all their trucks and came in the house like a swarm of wasps. They took everything that could sort of been considered hers. Even though most of it was either gifts from our wedding or gifts from me with love. I felt like I couldn’t say a word because she would say “see how big of a jerk he was!” After it was all over, I had leaves all over the bare floors most everything was gone including all the wedding photos and my best buddy Beau (our cat.) I was in a daze, here I have been giving my all for 4 years of marriage and 9 years of relationship and she starts having emotional affairs with her coworkers. Work all of the sudden meant so much to her. I wanted to be having children, she said “never!” I wanted to have sex, it has been years since she was very interested in sex with me. I guess it is best to be done with this mess. Best wishes to you, I know what you are going through and I too can’t stop crying. It comes and goes about every 3-4 hours. I’m sure we will get over it sometime. Guess we need to make them regret leaving by moving on ourselves.

Good luck!