Why is it so easy for him?
And why do I care so much about a guy that doesn't seem to care about me at all anymore? =(
Re: Why is it so easy for him? Lisalisa: "I don't understand why its so easy for him to walk away after we spent so much time together. He was my everything and he acted like I was his. I truly believed I was. Now he literally act like he doesnt care... turns from dr. jekyll to mr. hyde. Why does it hurt so much for me and it seems like it doesn't affect him at all? "
I don't know. I think it seems easier than it really is. Maybe not though.
"And why do I care so much about a guy that doesn't seem to care about me at all anymore? =("
You tell me? Maybe because it's still fresh and you don't have enough perspective on it. Maybe you don't think you deserve better. Maybe you don't think you will find better.
Re: Why is it so easy for him? Alone83: I am in the boat. I have no idea how he can walk away from a life I thought was wonderful. We had a family, house and I thought we were happy.
I think its easier for the "leaver." Just my opinion. But they leave and can focus on starting a new life while the ones left behind are picking up the pieces of the life they left behind while trying to deal with the emotions of being left.
I have no answer about why it is easy for him. I wish I knew.
Re: Why is it so easy for him? Snkpack: Probably because he spends less time thinking about it.
Re: Why is it so easy for him? Lisalisa: They probably already 'left' some time ago. Ending it is just the last step in them moving forward. So they have some time up on you. They've made their decision, then taken action, but you have just been dealt the blow.
It takes time.