Re:MY LIFE JUST FELL APART TONIGHT!!! timetobefree: HUGS to you. I am sorry...I really am, because we can all relate to how horrible it is. But now you know and can start moving forward. You can do this...I know you can!
As for attorneys, I also highly suggest finding someone with a free consultation. I was so upset when I went to see someone that I didn't do that, paid $200 to talk to him, and didn't even end up using him. I don't know about you, but I certainly could have used that money for something else! Do shop around though, because for me, dissolutions ranged from $675 to over $2500. So there was certainly a big range in fees.
Take care and hang in there...sending you positive vibes!
Amy :)
Re:MY LIFE JUST FELL APART TONIGHT!!! lifechange: F.A. So sorry for you :( You don't deserve this behavior and you have every right to stand up for yourself. I am thinking of you and the kids and sending you all big hugs!!!!!
Let me know if you need to chat!
lc
MY LIFE JUST FELL APART TONIGHT!!! favoriteangel2003: 4:20 a.m. in the morning...have been up all night. My life as I ever knew it just fell apart. It happened at 1:00 a.m. tonight and I can't even call anyone for support so I am coming to you my OJAR friends. I am glad I found this sight or I would be afraid for myself right now.
Here is my story....I found some disturbing stuff in my husbands office tonight so I thought I better try to get a hold of his phone records and make sure he isn't doing anything behind my back. He has done it before ...calling datelines and all that stuff during both my pregnancies. Well he then started having his phone bill sent to his parents adress 3 years ago...because he used some lame reason about setting up a new account and couldn't use our home address. He added my cell phone to his bill several months ago so now I thought I would try to get access to the account and call history. WELL ...there are to many pages , too many numbers from everywhere you could imagine and he still did it every year since then. I feel so stupid! I am trying not to get down on myself considering the situation. I will be getting a divorce now...I have to call a lawyer today...to top it off I am a stay at home mom for the past 3 years...now I have to hurry up and find a job too. I want this over with...I am sick and tired and after tonight very week. I can't (but can) believe this. I am so afraid. I don't know what to do at this point...where do I start. What are my rights? I am shaking so bad I can't even type! Can anyone suggest any affordable lawyers or what my next move should be? Please I need help! I have never been so low in my whole life. My poor girls!!! My daughter's birthday was October 25 and he was late for her party...he said he was installing a garage door at his parents house...well he finished early because he kept calling different girls constantly from 3:00-6:30p.m. The party started at 5:00. and to top it off he had calls coming in on his phone until 8:00 that night. I am heart broken! I always considered myself so bright and smart when it came to seeing through people...well I guess I have proved it....LOVE IS BLIND!
Re:MY LIFE JUST FELL APART TONIGHT!!! whathef?: aLL OF US HERE PRETTY MUCH KNOW THE FEELINGS YOU HAVE.
OOOPS....
You'll be better off as will the kids.
It takes time to heal, but the rewards are worth the pain.
Hang in there!
John
Re:MY LIFE JUST FELL APART TONIGHT!!! favoriteangel2003: John,
Thank you for responding...I have been up all night...going crazy wanting and needing someone to talk to. I won't call and wake anyone...but I am going crazy right now.
Thank you for your advice I hope you are right!!!
