therapists Sherman: how do they help?
Sherman
Re:therapists computerperson: I started seeing one at the end of December and it's working good for me. Though my "shell" really is a personal thing not completely related to the marriage.
I think they help.
Re:therapists OldSchool: Sherman,
First of all, I'm very sorry you're in this situation. I think people on here are just trying to help you out, and to let you know a number of us have had these same feelings you have.
Yes, a counselor does help get you to focus on yourself. You need to vent, and it will help you to talk this out. He/she should be compassionate and understanding, but will not tell you what you should do. If you need anything, you can IM me.
take care,
Dave
Re:therapists txmom3: They can be objective and the have seen people in you situations and can help you see the problem much different.
It saved my life..