its over caligirl: so, i can't say i ever have felt this way in my life-
today was the day when i signed the final papers-i knew i was going to do it today, and really didn't know how emotional i was going to get-
i had to call my friend this morning to see if she could go with me--i would've given her more notice- but i didn't think i was going to be so nervous and anxious....i cried in the car-all the way downtown....upset about how he lied to my attorney to make HIM look good- how I so want to call him to tell him so, but decided it wasn't worth it-he isn't worth it. how much in disbeleif that our marraige is over...sorry if i'm rambling here- i need some help on how to be able to put this behind me and move on...i'm not doing a very good job alone with this....
Re:its over amola: cali....
we're all with you....i know how hard this first day is. trust me, i was looking forward to the day and still ended up blubbering like a baby that night. just do whatever it is that will help you to feel good....go out with friends, curl up on the couch with a blanket and a good movie, go to bed with your teddy bear, take a hot bath, sit on ojar all night....
then in the morning, you'll get up, and you'll face the day. and you'll do the same thing the next day and the next day and the next day. you'll make it through this. just because technically it's over doesn't mean that the roller coaster ride is. i still have my up days and my down days....sometimes it's more like minutes than days but we all manage to make it somehow.
i have faith in you....if you need to talk, send me a message....i'm at work now but i'll get online when i get home in a little over an hour and i'll check on you, k?
{{{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}}}
amola
Re:its over OldSchool: Hi Cali,
I just wanted to chime in and say that it takes courage to through this. You're on your way, and my thoughts are with you.
take care,
Dave
Re:its over ukchap: Hi Cali
Started my Divorce by having the writ issued against her last Friday .... I have never felt so low in all of my life.
My thoughts and love are with you and PM me if you need to .... sometimes I wonder if I can do this ? but then I remember what she has done to our marriage and focus on the fact that If I was truely loved by my spouse then this would not be happening ..
UK Chap
Re:its over Shanna: (((Hugs)))
I go to a lawyer for the first time today and I am so stressed already and this is what I WANT/NEED.
Just the beginning of a whole new adventure.
